Anyhow, I’m understanding your case; I kept thinking you have a BME in Soft already thus I said you’d only need another 2" Soft Latex topper and not a 3" Latex topper.
In your case a 3" Soft Latex topper now makes perfect sense unless you get your BME in Medium exchanged for a Soft in which case you’d only need a 2" Soft Latex topper afterwards but doing so comes with a risk factor in the case you don’t like BME is Soft you’ll be stuck with it.
Personally I don’t see the risk but it needs to pointed out since you don’t like your current BME in Medium anyways and want to soften is up by getting a 3" Soft Latex topper because a 2" Latex topper will not suffice since you don’t want to be bottoming out onto the BME firmer Latex layers…LOL
This is why I just chose a two sided flip design pocketed coil mattress and then going topping it with a 2-3" Latex topper, I don’t like the dead weight feeling of foam core mattress but in all honesty if the BME was sold in Canada for the same price as the US (just conversion) with free shipping included I would have probably pulled the trigger on the BME in Medium and probably stick with it (gradually get use to the feeling of the foam core mattress).
Unless you have a great deal of experience in the industry and with the specific mattresses or toppers they are considering it’s very unlikely that you would be able to predict which topper they would do best with no matter what mattress or firmness level they have.
Again … I really don’t think that you have the knowledge or experience to be able to provide this type of guidance to others.
It’s in my nature to use calculations, I’m a computer specialist and have a scientific mind; I’m left handed and use both sides of my brain sometimes too much which gets me into trouble.
I know it’s totally different when it comes to mattresses there’s just too many unknown variables but I can’t help myself when posting or trying to find information related to mattresses/sleeping.
I have a sleeping disorder, probably due to my old mattress and I’m here for advice on trying to resolve my sleeping disorder…so you have every right to say I shouldn’t be giving advice at least not yet.
I just purchased a BME King medium after speaking with Mario about my firmness choice. We are
Me: 5’10 190lbs
Wife: 5’9" 150lbs
So, pretty average sized people. My wife can sleep on ANYthing and rotates from her back to her side. I sleep on my side and can/like to sleep on my back with a firmer mattress. Our current Serta pillowtop is a little too soft and gives me a little back ache and shoulder ache after a night of sleep. Sleeping on back being very rare due to a lack of support.
Our new mattress should be here the day before or after Thanksgiving and I will certainly update with my impressions.
Mario was as nice as everyone has suggested and no pressure to buy. With the return policy, I just don’t see how we could lose by trying this bed out.
Just ordered my #bestmattressever and I’m excited. I’ve bought more mattresses than I care to admit over the past 20 years and usually HATE shopping for them. Salespeople always seem more pushy than knowledgable, and it’s impossible to compare from one store to the next. About a year ago, I ordered an inexpensive DreamFoam Bedding 12-in-1 customizable online, and although it was really comfortable for awhile, the softer layer of polyfoam is now giving out. Hoping the higher density foam along with the 4" of latex in the #bestmattressever are as durable as everyone says.
Ordering was really simple and quick. I used the chat button a couple days ago, and today (Saturday) called and spoke with Keaton who was quite helpful and friendly. Used the “underground” 5% off coupon and Keaton also said he would throw in some pillows.
Also want to say “thanks” to this site - I read dozens of posts (many by Phoenix) over the past few days to help make my decision and feel better informed about this purchase than any previous mattress purchase. Will update after I get my mattress.
Thanks for the feedback and for letting us know what you ended up deciding … and congratulations on your new mattress
As you know I think you made a great quality/value choice and I’m looking forward to your comments and feedback when you receive it and have had the chance to sleep on it for a bit.
While the 2 lb polyfoam in the 12 in 1 customizable is a good quality material (in its budget range especially) … it’s possible that the soft layer was “on the edge” of being too soft for you so that even “normal” foam softening over time was enough to take you outside the comfort/support range that is suitable for you (see post #2 here). Since it’s a component mattress you could replace the soft layer with either a firmer layer of good quality polyfoam or even a layer of latex and you would have a mattress that you could use as a spare or as a guest mattress.
The latex comfort layers in the BestMattressEver would be more durable than the polyfoam in your 12 in 1 customizable.
Just ordered my #BestMattressEver. Now I am hoping for the #BestSleepEver. Got the Black Friday promos 5%off and 2 free pillows. Thanks for all the info!
I think you made a great quality/value choice and like the other members here that have purchased it I’m also looking forward to your comments and feedback once you’ve received it as well.
I ordered a soft Best Mattress ever and have been sleeping on it for about a month. I’m having shoulder pain since I am a side sleeper. I did not have shoulder pain on my old memory foam mattress. Brooklyn Bedding is sending me a memory foam topper for my mattress. Has anyone else tried the soft Best Mattress Ever with a memory foam topper?
If your mattress is too firm then a topper can certainly be an effective way to add some additional softness and pressure relief although there is always some risk and uncertainty involved in adding a topper if you haven’t tested the combination in person each person is unique and the specifics of the mattress and topper itself along with your own body type, sleeping position, preferences, and what you are used to sleeping on can affect which specific topper would be a suitable choice for any particular person on any specific mattress.
I would be very cautious about using other people’s reviews or experiences on a topper (either positive or negative) as a reliable source of information or guidance about how suitable or how soft or firm it may feel to you and in many cases they can be more misleading than helpful because a mattress/topper combination that would be a perfect choice for one person may not work out nearly as well for someone else (see post #13 here).
Having said all that … the most likely reason for shoulder pain is a mattress that is too firm and a memory foam topper would certainly add some additional softness and pressure relief to your mattress so the odds are in your favor but again the only way to know whether you will sleep well on the combination will be based on your own personal experience.
It’s also possible that shoulder pain can be a pillow issue and it may also be worthwhile trying a different pillow that keeps your head and neck in good alignment to see if it helps as well…
I’m looking forward to finding out how the topper works out for you.
We have had the mattress now for a couple of weeks and are happy with our purchase. The order shipped quickly, the mattress took very little time to fill out its shape after taking out of the box, and there was no unpleasant smell that can sometime happen with new mattresses. The materials are good quality, it is comfortable to sleep on, and we feel better rested after a night’s sleep on this mattress than we ever did on our previous one. My husband used to get really hot on top of our memory foam topper and he doesn’t with this latex mattress.
uggghh my mattress was supposed to be here Friday but FedEx didnt show…so now maybe today. I was hoping to offer a sleep update by now.
aaand it finally showed. It lacks about 1" maybe from expanding to the full width (height is fine) of our support after only 1 hour. There is no smell and it was easy to unpack.
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Hi everyone, I’m new to this Forum. Phoenix, thank you so much for all the great information. Right now my husband and I are looking at the Brooklyn Bedding BME. Looks pretty solid and has all the right density parameters. Will let you know when we are going to make that leap!
As you probably know from your reading here you are certainly looking at a great quality/value choice and I’m looking forward to finding out what you end up deciding once you pull the trigger.
Personally I don’t think you can go wrong with the BME if you know you like the feel of a Latex/Foam hybrid mattress, the BME has a very high quality to price/value ratio.
The tricky part would be to know which firmness is best suited for your body type, weight and sleeping position since the BME is not sold at retail stores and similar setups are still only a guess of how the BME would actually feel in person.
Hi Everyone - just want you to know I love the Best Mattress Ever by Brooklyn Bedding. I’m an average 55 year old woman with a 9 to 5 and 2 dogs. I have to say with all the lengthy, glowing reviews about this mattress I was a little skeptical but no more. First it is pretty cool to see your bed expand after you take off the plastic (my first experience with a bed being delivered this way). As I have no issues with change I had no break in period - as soon as my head hit my pillow I took an involuntary 4 hour nap - it was like I fell asleep on a cloud. A latex mattress has a different feel - but it doesn’t. It"s firm but is isn’t. Its hard to describe it - even though it’s firm it also feels like it’s gently pushing you up - supporting you in all the rights places. I wake up and don’t have the normal aches and pains I had on my innerspring mattress. Not that all my aches and pains magically disappeared since I still have to sit in my chair at work or my couch - I just don’t have them when I wake up now since I’m getting the proper support. Even my dog who wakes up with the sun can’t get me up early any more! Another big reason to love my Brooklyn Bedding mattress! This company offers a 120 night free trial and I was glad they did but so didn’t need this. I needed help with the firmness level since this was my first latex mattress and Mario is so responsive - I like really rock hard beds but at 55 what was once comfortable in your 20s is no longer comfortable - so I wanted really firm with a little cushion - he suggested I get the medium since latex is naturally pretty firm & for my personal taste it is exactly what I wanted my bed to feel like. I also got a latex pillow from them and it is the perfect blend of comfy, squishy and supportive. Brooklyn Bedding offers such a quality product - I just can’t express how glad I am that I found Brooklyn Bedding and that I own their Best Mattress Ever!
