Hi questforsleep,
I’m sorry to hear your purchase didn’t work the way you wanted but I certainly appreciate your feedback.
Comfort and softness are of course subjective and each person may have a different idea of how well one mattress matches another … especially with memory foam which can respond in different ways in different conditions … but the value of a good return policy is that you can test a mattress based on your own experience and perceptions.
Several of the manufacturers listed in post #12 here make a memory foam mattress that uses the Rhapsody as a reference point and matches them in one or more ways (see post #9 here about mattress matching) including some that use a similar design and/or foam densities.
Phoenix