Hi Phoenix,
First, I want to thank you for the wealth of information on this site - it is truly amazing and incredibly helpful for weary mattress shoppers.
Here is my situation, which has many facets of questions and confusion involved!
My husband and I are in the market for a king size mattress. We are both relatively small people: I am 5’4" and 115 lbs, he is 5’8" and 175 lbs. I am a tosser - I sleep primarily on my side and stomach, but sometimes on my back. He sleeps primarily on his side and back. We both wake up with upper back pain, and recently I’ve been having neck pain as well. We have been sleeping on regular coil mattresses, and after having a 5-year old Simmons replaced under warranty for sagging (it really started sagging after only 3 years), we are rather put off of coil mattresses. We are tired (pun intended) of not getting quality sleep due to our mattress, and want to make the best choice possible, especially if we will be spending well over $1,000 for a mattress.
My husband is convinced he wants memory foam, and I was too after a friend jumped on the Tempurpedic bandwagon early on and declared his love for it. However, my husband and I both sleep hot, and this is a big concern for me with memory foam. I am also concerned about the off-gassing - we have memory foam pillows that I could not sleep on for about a month because of the odor. My husband bought the gel/foam sales pitch of the iComfort line, and is convinced that is the mattress he wants. I think he is just tired of shopping and just ready to finally make a purchase (we have been sleeping in the guest room of our new house for 6 months!).
I think I am leaning toward latex, mainly because of my experience with a latex pillow growing up and what I have read on this site about durability. However, after reading about the local/regional options in my area (Raleigh, NC), it seems they are pretty limited for testing. I am having a tough time figuring out a way to test mattresses locally and translate my findings to possibly ordering online from one of the members of this site. Do you have any suggestions for me? I will likely check out Original Mattress Factory and the Healthy Back Store. I am hesitant to try The Organic Bedroom, because they bill themselves as a luxury outlet, and I fear falling in love with something I have no hope of being able to afford! But perhaps I can get some ideas? How should I approach this?
Additionally, my husband has declared that he is done shopping for mattresses and is not willing to test any others, even though he has not had a chance to try a latex mattress (the only latex mattress I have had a chance to try so far was from RoomandBoard). I have tried explaining the benefits of latex, but he is just done.
A few other questions:
I like the idea of the latex mattresses that have layers that can be changed, but my husband just wants someone to bring the mattress in, set it up and be done. How difficult is it to assemble a king size mattress that is shipped in layers? We would have to bring it to the second floor through a stairway with a low ceiling.
Also, our bed is a platform bed from Room and Board with steel slats/beams. The slats are about 2.5" wide and 4" apart - would we need additional support? The bed is designed to not require a foundation for the mattresses Room and Board sells, but I don’t know if it would be sufficient to satisfy a warranty for other mattresses.
I know this is a lot, but I thank you in advance for any feedback you can provide!