Hi lovemarmot,
Welcome to the Mattress Forum!
Thank you. It is a shame that some of the largest companies in this industry aren’t as transparent as we’d like them to be about their products, but at least it makes it easier for you as a consumer to differentiate between them and those companies who truly craft a superior product and take the side of the consumer.
I’m sorry that you had some unpleasant interactions with the representatives at Saatva (you can read more about Saatva in post #1 here or just perform a forum search on Saatva). It’s unfortunate when that happens. I certainly understand that people can have bad days (I even have a few here on the Mattress Forum!), but it still is disappointing when it happens to you.
As I think you are already aware, I always suggest being very cautious about using other people’s experiences or reviews on a mattress (either positive or negative) as a reliable source of information or guidance about how you will feel on the same mattress or how suitable or how durable a mattress may be for you and in many if not most cases they can be more misleading than helpful because a mattress that would be a perfect choice for one person or even a larger group of people may be completely unsuitable for someone else to sleep on (see post #13 here ).
Most consumers also don’t have the knowledge or expertise to be able to assess the quality and durability of the materials in a mattress and often mistake the “comfort” of a mattress with the quality of the mattress so even though they may be well meaning … they end up recommending lower quality and less durable mattresses that will soften or break down much to quickly just because it happens to be comfortable to one person. Most consumers aren’t really aware that how a mattress feels to them has very little relevance to anyone else and they don’t have the knowledge or experience to recommend a specific mattress for anyone else.
I have seen ebay mattresses for example with 10,000 plus reviews that are 99% positive but have little meaning because they are just a way that people congratulate themselves and justify the “deal” they think they received and less than 1% or them even realize the quality or real value of what they purchased … or what they could have purchased instead.
I am happy that you had a more positive experience with My Green Mattress. They are a member here, which means that I think highly of them and their products and knowledge. I’d be interested in learning about what mattress you chose when you made your purchase, as well as any comments about your mattress once you’ve had a chance to sleep on it for a while.
Phoenix