Hi cvincent,
[quote]i had planned on a organic bed or 100% natural but they felt the blended was better
and from reading a lot the past few days it seemed there is not a significant difference as far as organic etc being healthier[/quote]
I would agree with them on both counts that the blended Talalay would likely be more durable and that there is no meaningful difference in their “safety” since both of them have been Oeko-Tex certified with the same testing protocol. Both of them would have some initial smell from the latex.
[quote]felt a little like i might be rolling into the middle, would this maybe be an indication of too soft?
or maybe just need time to adjust to this type of bed[/quote]
It’s possible yes but when you are first sleeping on a new material that you aren’t used to it could also be the more subjective sensations of a new material as you go through the break in and adjustment period (see post #3 here) so I would wait for a few weeks before deciding whether you need to either rearrange or exchange a layer.
If at that time you decide need to “firm up” the deeper support layers then you could either put the firm layer in the middle (with the medium on the bottom) or if you needed it firmer yet you could exchange a medium layer for a firm or even an extra firm.
Phoenix