We’ve all probably heard many people, especially our parents, insist that a firm mattress is a must in order to maintain a healthy back. Almost two years ago I began suffering from a herniated disc in my lumbar spine, and my experience with that condition led me to question if the firm mattress belief is actually just a myth.
I’m 29-years-old, male, about 5’8" or maybe a tad bit taller, currently weigh 180lbs (weighed 200 when the problem started),and am in decent shape. Before my back problem, I never paid much attention to how I felt about my mattress. I’d been sleeping on the same very firm mattress for 20 years. After the back problem started, when I laid in bed on my back I would feel a high amount of pressure in my lower back. It felt like pressure was concentrated in my lower back due to the large curve that exists between my glutes and back. In addition to that pressure, I began realizing my mattress was sort of “pushing” against my entire body, especially my lower back and my shoulders, and it was doing so pretty hard.
About 3 months ago, I invested in a memory foam mattress. I chose the Regalis from Select Foam. The Regalis is listed as “medium-firm” and is the equivalent of TempurPedic’s Rhapsody model. At first I really liked the feel (I went from my 20-year-old very firm mattress to a high quality memory foam), but after about a week, I began to realize that I needed a softer mattress, one that would more fully contour to my body thus more evenly distribute pressure and relieve pressure points. Select Foam has good quality and customer service, so I decided to stick with them and exchange the Regalis for the Cirrus Luxe. The Cirrus Luxe is listed as their “softest gel bed” and is the equivalent of TempurPedic’s Cloud Luxe model. The Cirrus Luxe arrived at my house this past Friday, so I’ve slept on it for 4 nights so far. It is very soft, it contours very well to my body (it totally fills the glute-back curvature gap), and it does a good job of distributing pressure and relieving my pressure points especially the ones in my lower back and shoulders. I think the Cirrus Luxe’s combo of 2.5 inches of 4lb memory foam on top of 2 inches of 8lb memory foam allow me to sink deep enough into it to get very good contour while also providing support to my spine. I am very happy and comfortable with the Cirrus Luxe, which happens to be the softest mattress I’ve ever slept on.
So, based on my experience it seems that the firm mattress belief is just a myth. In my opinion, you should just sleep on the mattress that feels most comfortable to you.
Am I wrong? Am I going to wake up one night 6 months from now in pain because my mattress is too soft?
Any other opinions?
Anyone know what the firm mattress belief is based on?