Hi Halifax,
I don’t have any specific suggestions for pillows (pillows are too personal an item with too many individual preferences involved) but the pillow thread here should be helpful.
Pillows that are “scrunchable” are a good idea for people who sleep in different positions and need a different pillow height for each position and there are also pillows (often with shredded latex but other materials as well) that have a zip cover and can be customized with different amounts of fill so you can adjust the height and/or softness on an individual basis.
Phoenix