Hi ldude916,
It seems that you are somewhat âall over the mapâ in terms of mattresses that are quite different in terms of pressure relief, support, and âfeelâ. Iâll make a few comments that hopefully will help.
Outside of your sleeping positions (you mentioned side and back but not your stomach?) I donât know your other âstatsâ (your weight, height, body shape) and I donât know anything about your husbandâs. There are also a few unknowns about the Verlo gel mattresses (although they would probably easily answer them). Both of these ⌠and especially your missing âstatsâ would make a difference in any comments I would make.
But that aside Iâll make some more general comments about the mattresses you mentioned.
TempurPedic Contour Signature: This is on the slightly firmer end of the Tempurpedic line and has 4" of memory foam over their 8" base foam. Part of the firmness is that their memory foam will take more time to conform to your body shape but it would be more conforming and softer once your body heat has softened it. This would be a slightly âfirmerâ memory foam choice.
iComfort Insight: this is one of the firmest choices in the iComfort line with 3" of the gel memory foam (which is also on the firm side) over their base support layer.
It seems like last weekend you were more attracted to the firmer versions of memory foam or gel foam mattresses although not the absolute firmest.
Renewal Refined iComfort: This has softer and thicker layers in the comfort layer and is towards the softest end of the iComfort scale.
Verlo Kodiak: This too has the softest comfort layers of the 3 Verlo gel models. The good thing is that the gel foam is on the surface which can help with cooling. 4 lb memory foam will be softer and less durable than most 5 lb foams and subject to softening more rapidly but this will be slightly offset because it is a little deeper in the mattress which would make it less subject to repeated deeper compression.The 2" of 1.5 lb polyfoam is also quite low density/durability but it also is even deeper and this would help extend itâs lifetime. Overall though there is 7" of âsofter stuffâ in the mattress (although they donât show the softness/firmness of the 2" convoluted layer) and this is a fairly risky construction ⌠especially when you take any initial softening into account.
So today you are all the way over towards the other side of the scale.
iComfort Revolution: This is their second softest model in the lineup and has 5.75 inches of âsoft stuffâ on top (4.75" of memory foam and an inch of polyfoam). How appropriate this was would depend on your husbands stats but again the comfort layers are quite thick and this could also be risky. He also liked the middle of the line in the Verlo line instead of the softer Kdiak although this would likely be a little closer to the Revolution with 5" total of memory foam but no extra polyfoam vs the 4.75 of the Revolution. The problem also is that the different memory foams have different properties so they are not directly translatable to each other.
Bear in mind too that whatever you are buying now will go through an initial softening period for the first 90 days or so which is followed by the more gradual long term softening of the foams. If you are âon the edgeâ of your range for alignment, then any further softening could easily put you on the other side of the support range that is suitable for either you or your husband.
I would also want to know the type of memory foam that Verlo (and Ecosleep who makes the same mattresses and you can see the Kodiak equivalent here) are using and I would take into account that if it is the version that used gel particles or beads that itâs not likely to be as durable as the infused or co-mixed types of gel foam.
My guess without any real reference points or âpatternsâ of your preferences to validate it is that you may be more âin the middleâ and I would suspect that the firmer models of last weekend may be be too firm for you in the long term and you may have been drawn towards them because of your past choices. This would depend on your actual experience though and at this point you are on both ends of the scale and I would test further ⌠possibly with the help of a good salesperson ⌠to decide where you really belong.
There would be some âriskâ in the softer versions you tried today because they both have thicker comfort layers which could easily allow your heavier parts to sink in a little too far for best alignment. I would pay special attention to this possibility and ask yourself if it even felt a âlittle too softâ for your best alignment because it will get somewhat softer yet fairly quickly as it is âbreaking inâ.
Gel foam is a little less likely to have âcreepâ (meaning that over the course of the night you would slowly start to sink deeper) because it gives the memory foam a little higher sag factor which means that it will get firmer with deeper compression faster than other memory foams so this may slightly reduce the risk of thicker comfort layers although they could still be on the thick side. I would be very tempted to test one model down and see how it was for pressure relief because the support and alignment would likely be better.
I would also consider giving Tim at my Green mattress a call to see what he says about alternatives that he makes and whether a trip there would be worth the drive. He is also an âexpertâ in helping his customers make great choices.
Phoenix