Hi soulgiver,
Congratulations on your new mattress 
You certainly made a good quality/value choice and I hope that your wife comes to like it once she’s given it a little bit of time.
There will be a break in and adjustment period for any new mattress or sleeping system as the mattress loses any of it’s “false firmness” and the cover stretches and loosens a little and the materials settle and your body gets used to a sleeping surface that is different from what it is used to (see post #3 here). This would typically be a few weeks but it can be shorter or longer depending on the specifics of the person and the mattress. Some of the information in post #2 here may also be helpful.
Phoenix