Hi dpastor,
The New York list is in post #2 here and the there is a more categorized list with a few more detailed descriptions of some of them in the Northern New jersey list in post #7 here.
I’m happy to speak to the quality or value of a mattress or of course point the members here in the direction of better options in terms of retailers or manufacturers but as you can see in mattress firmness/comfort levels in post #2 here there are too many variables and unknowns for me to suggest specific mattresses or comfort choices based on “theory at a distance”. Your own careful and objective testing will be a much more accurate guideline to find what is most suitable for you.
The first part of post #2 here also has some information that may be helpful in situations where the needs and preferences of a couple are very different,
Phoenix