Good evening, Phoenix–
First I want to say THANK YOU for your dedication to sharing your knowledge on the complicated and confusing topic of mattresses. Your passion for helping people in their quest to find a restful and rejuvenating night’s sleep is apparent, and you have a gift for being diplomatic and realistic at the same time. Bravo! (Also thank you to everyone who has taken the time to post-- the information shared and received has been invaluable in my research.)
I have been reading this site on and off for a few months, digesting the information in doses, and believe I am finally ready to pull the trigger with the help of my Christmas bonus. I have known for some time that latex would be the best choice for my husband and I, and plan to go with the SleepEZ Organic 10,000 queen model (which I found thanks to this site. The discount is appreciated, and I agree with many other posters that I have been surprised to reach the owner on the phone each of the times I have called with questions.) I realize it would be ideal to try out some latex mattresses in person, however Fox mattresses in Daytona, FL is the only “recommended” dealer nearby (about 2 hours south of us) and I know I will need more than 15 minutes lying on a mattress to realize if it will work. Additionally, I do most of my shopping online due to a demanding job schedule/little free time, and the ability to switch out layers with Sleep EZ is very appealing.
My question here is twofold: part one regarding the mattress, part two re: the topper.
Here is our info:
Me: 33 years old, 5’7" 150lb… 75% side sleeper (with a pillow between my knees), 25% on back (pillow under knees)
Due to stress and inactivity, a hernaited disc in my lower back has been flaring up recently. Also- I often have pain in my upper shoulders- part stress, part sleeping on our tired spring mattress on my side.
Him: 39 yo, 6’1" 200lbs… he also sleeps 75% on his side (hugging a pillow to keep shoulders from collapsing) and 25% on back.
My husband is quite active in many physical pursuits and doesn’t have the pain issues I have. He does, however, tend to sleep “hot” and sweats in his sleep.
We tend to like cushy, softer sleep surfaces - although neither one of us enjoys the feel of memory foam- and are currently sleeping on a compacted down comforter on top of our horrible mattress. (When we first switched from my full pillow top to his queen mattress sans pillow top my hips and shoulders were on fire so I pulled the old comforter out of the linen closet.) Not ideal, I realize. Which is why I am here!
Shawn at Sleep EZ recommended soft/med/firm for my side of the bed + med/firm/x-firm for my husband’s side. After speaking with him and perusing this site I feel that Talalay would be our latex of choice (SleepEZ offers the choice of the two with no additional cost), as it is more uniform in its surface. Also-- I realize now after educating myself on this site that support is key, so I want to be sure that our set-up is soft on top but provides proper support. and I am eager to hear your thoughts on the Dunlop vs. Talalay for our case.
Part two of my question is regarding a topper. (Not necessary, I realize, but we like that cushy feeling.) I’ve narrowed it down to the Cozypure La Noodle shredded latex topper and (their?) wool topper. I am aware that the wool, in addition to being more expensive, will compact eventually. However, its temperature regulating properties appeal to me as my husband “sleeps hot.” I have read conflicting opinions here regarding whether latex regulates body temperature/is cooling or not. What is your take, Phoenix? Would one of these toppers be preferable for my herniated disc issue?
I look forward to hearing your thoughts when you have a moment.
Many thanks!