Yesterday my husband and I went to look at latex mattresses at Sleep, Etc and Healthy Choice and it was our first time lying on a latex mattress. Due to our wish for a firm mattress with some softness on the top, the salesman at Sleep, Etc. recommended their Terrabed mattress style “Lavender” with a 6 inch bottom firm latex core and a 2 inch medium latex layer on top. The mattress did feel very good to both of us. When I asked about multiple layers, the salesman said we didn’t really need more than those two layers, and “bigger” or more expensive is not necessarily better. Then we went to Healthy Choice. They had a model with the exact same 2 layers: 6 inch bottom firm and 2 inch top medium. However, when we laid on that bed, it felt OK on our backs, but hard as a rock on our sides. We didn’t like it at all. When I questioned the salesman about the big difference between two seemingly similar mattresses, he explained that the ILD numbers were probably different! Aaaah… with all my research, I guess I missed the ILD information. Anyhow, Healthy Choice had a “Rose” model, which was a 6 inch firm base, followed by a 2 inch medium level, followed by a 2 inch soft top level. This mattress felt phenomenal to me. But now I am very confused, and I’m not sure if it could be too soft. The salesman at Sleep, Etc, spent some time taking pictures of me, so I could see how straight my spine was on the Terra; but the salesman at Healthy Choice didn’t seem to focus on that, just on our comfort level. When I asked my husband if I looked “straight” while on my back, he said that my “bottom” sunk in a little, and the HC salesman said that is the natural way your body should be supported (ie: when you’re on your side, the slight fetal position is what is most comfortable to most people). When we got home, I tried to do some research on the internet and stumbled across this website, and some of what I read is even more confusing, so I thought I’d write to get more specific info.
The HC mattress is approximately $500 more than the Terra mattress, and my husband seems to think the extra money is not warranted since the Terra seems to do the job. I, however, wonder if the Terra does not have the “pressure relief” that you talk about due to the medium top layer, and the HC (with the medium & soft top layers) will be better to our bodies in the long run. BTW, I sleep on my back for most of the night, and usually only turn on my side toward morning. My husband, however, is a side sleeper, so I think the pressure relief is much more important for him, although he insists he can sleep on anything! Also, both of us have on-and-off lower back issues. I’m also not sure if I should question the ILD numbers on each bed and if they should play into our decision regarding long term comfort and longevity… or if we should forget all of this and just go for what is most comfortable. I also wonder if the HC’s “soft” top layer will eventually get flattened out, or be less supportive? Or is the soft layer not supportive enough? Finally, I see in some of these forums that you have referred people to Custom Sleep Systems in Branford, CT, which is near us. I see that they have multiple layers, although their website doesn’t get into detail, and that they seem to be less expensive than either the Terra or the HC. Has anyone communicated good experience with their products to you?
Anyhow, any information that you could provide would be so greatly appreciated to someone who is now extremely confused!
Kripen