Hi Seraph,
Thanks for the update with your comments and feedback and for letting us know what you ended up deciding.
Most importantly … congratulations on your new mattress and topper 
It sounds like you made a great choice and hopefully as your wife gets to sleep a little longer her experience will get better as well although it’s normal that there will be a break in and adjustment period with any new mattress or sleeping system that is different from what you were used to sleeping on (see post #3 here).
I’m looking forward to any additional updates you have the chance to share.
Phoenix