This is just to give some feedback to dn and Phoenix who helped me out along the way with advice.
I initially started out with a Zoned Dunlop core and 2" 22 ILD topper from Arizona Mattress Company. I purposely had them make me a mattress cover with some extra room in case I wanted to add in more layers.
After about a week of lower back pains, I decided that the 22 ILD topper was too soft, and in any case, I could feel the transition between it and the core. I ordered a 2" 28 ILD layer from KTT, who seemed to have the best price. Apparently they are right next to the Latex International factory, so they have a wide selection and can ship out quickly. The only two negatives are that they can’t seem to ship out anything more than 2" without having to use a second box, which gets gouged by UPS. Also, their latex has a slight smell of freshly baked muffins, and gives me a slight cough after handling it.
First I tried putting in BOTH the 2" 22 ILD and 2" 28 ILD just for poops and giggles. Wow, now I know what a jiggly bed feels like. However, it was not as soft as I expected because it overstuffed the cover, which made it kind of taut and trampoline-like. I actually kind of like it for back sleeping, but pokes the shoulder too hard when side sleeping.
Using just the 28 ILD was a little too firm for the shoulders.
So I guess the generalization is true that back sleepers need a firmer mattress than side sleepers, but is there a way to make it work well for both types?
I drove on over to Bob’s Foam Factory http://www.bobsfoam.com/ where they were super helpful and had a spiffy machine that could take my 2" layer of 22 ILD, and cut it down to 1". I put 1" of this on top of my 28" ILD, and put the other 1" aside.
I’m somewhat happy with the setup right now, and in retrospect it was pretty close to the All latex mattress from Brooklyn bedding #6, which is 6" 32 ILD + 3" 28 ILD + thin polyfoam/wool, whereas I have 6" 31-35-31 ILD, + 2" 28 ILD + 1" 22 ILD + wool. I can no longer feel the transition between comfort and support layers.
(Incidentally, I noticed that latex is pretty good about retaining heat. Even after I have been out of bed for an hour, if I take the layers apart, I can feel a warm spot in the core layer where I was sleeping.)
Maaaaaaybe I could still use a little more firmness near the hip area because after only one night, I still had a very slight lower back pain. I don’t really know what it is except that it seems to come from something that causes my lower back to arch. I can actually make the pain go away by bending my knees and putting my feet flat on the bed, then lifting up my hips. This causes my lower back to droop down and un-arch.
I am not sure how I can create any more firmness around the hip area without also creating more shoulder-poking firmness. Maybe I can flip the core over again and use the “firmer” side. I have a couple more ideas, and will report back if they work.