HI all! I have to say again what an incredible resource this site, forum, and Phoenix have been. Thank you!
I had an “original” 10" Tempur-Pedic mattress that we slept on for 12 years and it was the “magic bullet” that helped my back pain. Eventually, it softened up and wore out and stopped supporting us and I ended up with new pains all over again. After that, over the last 2 years or so, we went through a latex bed and a memory foam bed from the Healthy Back store (more details in my other posts if you are really curious) but they had problems breaking down quickly (months) and were never right for us. For the last 18 months or so we have used a Sleep EZ 10000 latex bed and it has also not held up well, and is not comfortable to us. After doing some research here and going to various stores and spending hours on different beds we think we want to try a Novosbed Aria or Harmony. We aren’t sure which.
That is where we need help. I was able to try the TP Cloud Supreme and Supreme Breeze and we liked them. Supposedly the Aria is supposed to match up to those well. However several posters here have said the Aria and Harmony both are much firmer than expected. The Aria has higher density memory foam and would (probably?) hold up better in the long run. We’ve had such terrible experiences with materials breaking down and softening up that it makes it very tempting. I’ve read here about the break-in periods and what to expect. It just seems to confirm that in the long haul, I might be happier with the Aria. However, I sleep very hot and my wife likes to snuggle right up to me. The Harmony is less dense materials and supposedly softer, and it has the gel feature that should help with the sleeping hot. I think I also read a post from Phoenix somewhere talking about gel foam’s ability to resist further “sinking” over the course of the night as it heats up. My fear is that it will be too soft, or get too soft after the first year or so. We are both side sleepers, 5’7" 160lb and 5’3" 135lb. Like I said, we are often right in the middle together. She is curvy and carries a substantial part of her weight in the hips. Her complaint in plusher beds with thick comfort layers has been hip sway: where it feels like she is going to roll backwards onto her back and she fights that feeling all night to stay on her side.
I know that only we can decide, but I was hoping someone had some insight for us or maybe a piece of information we didn’t have or consider. There is probably too much information above, but if you have a question that might help please ask! I do plan to get a new foundation with a new mattress, probably direct from Novosbed unless someone knows of a smarter option.
TIA!