Hi BryanJ,
Thanks for letting know what you ended up deciding.
Based on your comments it certainly seems like you have done some very good research on the site but as you know … no matter how much you may “want to” like a material (or how much you may want your wife to like a certain material) … real life and personal experience can get in the way!
The specs of the Elegance are the same as the specs of the Pure Talalay Bliss Beautiful and it’s one of the softest mattresses in their line. You can see the specs in post #2 here. While it’s a moot point … it’s somewhat unfortunate that you didn’t have a chance to try a Dunlop latex mattress or perhaps a latex/polyfoam mattress which may have been a little less resilient or “springy”.
As you know this mattress uses high quality/density memory foam that are certainly suitable for your body weight and the 1.8 lb polyfoam would only be a “slight caution” because of the durability of the memory foam layers above it so your expectations about the durability and useful life of the mattress may be less than you will actually experience.
I don’t know of anyone off the top of my head that purchased a SleepEZ component mattress with a memory foam top layer (I think that most of the members that purchase from SleepEZ are more interested in latex) but Christeli makes the Luxe Estate and the Palais Grande Royale which both have latex support cores and 5.3 lb and 6 lb memory foam comfort layers and forum searches will bring up some comments and feedback about both of them. They don’t have a return policy and only offer exchanges but again since you have already made your purchase it’s also a moot point as well.
I’m glad the site could help you and you certainly ended up making a great quality/value choice … and congratulations on your new mattress
I’m looking forward to your comments and feedback once you’ve received it and have had the chance to sleep on it for a bit.
Phoenix