Hi jaybackintheday,
I couldnât agree more ⌠and for some people it can be even more difficult because personal preferences can play a bigger role in choosing a pillow. There is more about pillows in the pillow thread here.
I also agree about the break in and adjustment period and how much âmuscle memoryâ can affect this (see post #7 here).
The choice between Talalay and Dunlop is more of a preference issue than a âbetter/worseâ issue. Talalay is more resilient and âlivelyâ than Dunlop but there are probably more side sleepers that prefer Talalay than the other way around (although each person would have their own preferences). It would also depend on the specific firmness and thickness of the comfort layer and how they combine with the rest of the layers as well because both Talalay and Dunlop come in a range of firmness levels. There is more about the differences between Talalay and Dunlop in post #7 here.
When you have a new mattress most people will be sensitive to all the new âsensationsâ and all the differences between it and the mattress they were used to and it can take a while for the focus to switch to more of a âbodyâ experience and how well you sleep in general and less on the âmindâ or âanalyticalâ parts of your experience that looks at everything that is ânewâ in much more detail.
Phoenix