Talked out of Sealy Optimum?

Hi Heyphoenix,

Softness and firmness is subjective and relative to each person. I can only speak to the quality of the materials and the relative value of a mattress. Your job is to make sure that you test the mattress as carefully and objectively as possible to make sure that the mattress is suitable for you in terms of PPP (Posture and alignment, Pressure relief, and Personal preferences). If a mattress is too soft for your specific needs and preferences (based on your body type and sleeping style) then there would be a greater risk of alignment issues and it would also be less durable for you because foam softening could more easily take you outside of the range of comfort and support that is ideal for you.

In order to provide any meaningful opinions about any mattress you would need to provide me with the specifics of what was in it. The job of a good retailer is to provide this to you and if they are more knowledgeable and experienced they would also be able to tell you what the information means relative to other mattresses but if you find out the information and the retailer or manufacturer can’t “translate” it for you I’d be happy to give you my thoughts about it.

I terms of quality and value they are certainly a good option but as I mentioned earlier in the post I linked about making comfort choices (see mattress firmness/comfort levels in post #2 here along with post #2 here) only you can decide which mattress is most suitable for your specific needs and preferences. You could buy the best quality and value mattress available in the country and if it wasn’t suitable for you it would have little value to you. Most online memory foam manufacturers will have a good idea of which of the Tempurpedic mattresses each of their models most closely approximates in terms of overall “feel”, quality of materials, and design (or in some cases all three) or in some cases they may use other mattresses as an approximation so you can get a better sense of how their mattresses feel and performs. If you are considering going in an online direction then a more detailed conversation with them on the phone would be one of the most important parts of your research.

Phoenix