Hello - thank you for all the wonderful advice and expertise on this site. I am hoping someone can help me.
Two years ago, my spouse and I bought a Nature’s Embrace Alto latex mattress (all Dunlop) from a dealer in a mid-size Canadian city. We wanted to buy a natural material mattress and latex sounded great. There was only one local dealer of latex and we did not want to take the risk of purchasing online. Unfortunately, the local dealer was not a specialized furniture store with expertise on the mattresses. This, combined with our own lack of knowledge, limited opportunity to test the mattress in store and no comfort guarantee, meant we were stuck with a mattress that was too firm.
We now believe the layers of the mattress are as follows (Nature’s Embrace seem to have changed their model names and now provide details on ILD and layers on their website - they have a “Classic 10 inch” mattress in Firm like the Alto we purchased):
6" core 40 ILD
2" transition 30 ILD
2" comfort 20 ILD
1" wool and organic cotton cover
After a few months of sleeping on the mattress (which I lovingly refer to as the “block of concrete”) we added a 3" Dunlop soft (ILD 20) topper from an online retailer to try and get me a bit more “distance” from the firmer layers. It seemed to help a little but not enough.
It is still much too firm for me and we are in search of a topper to make the bed more comfortable. I am a back and side sleeper (5’6" 145 lbs) and I get lower back pain when on my back and shoulder pain when on my side.
My spouse is 6’0 190 lbs, also a side and back sleeper. He likes a firm mattress but he wouldn’t mind a comfort topper on top.
While we research toppers, I have been sleeping on 2 old feather duvets folded in half and stacked one on top of the other. It has improved my sleep and provides pressure point relief and more comfort, not my dream topper and only temporary.
We have just recently completed 8 nights sleeping on a 3" Eco wool topper that I hoped so much would be the answer to our mattress problems. Night one was a disaster as we had a too-taut protector and fitted sheet over top (learned from this site how that can affect surface tension!). For nights 2 and 3, we loosely tucked the protector (Berkeley thick, stretchy organic cotton) and fitted sheet around the topper only (not mattress) and I had great sleeps - the fluffy, nest-like feel I was hoping for. However, the last several nights have been underwhelming. I have pain in my mid to upper spine (the bed strangely feels “bowed” under my back where the wool must be compressing) and just not as comfortable. I have to more frequently switch to my side. We have been flipping and rotating the topper to try and evenly compress, as advised, but cannot get the comfy feeling back. We also removed the Berkeley protector as it is quite thick and seemed to emphasize the “bowing” feeling because it is elasticized and was bunching along the sides underneath where the topper has not been compressed (outside sleeping zone). Knowing how wool compresses over time (even with periodic air and sun to fluff it up), I only see this topper becoming even less comfortable for me than it is now (my spouse really likes it but wants me to be comfortable, so open to something else).
Since I have been reasonably comfortable (moreso than on the wool) sleeping on a feather topper of sorts with my folded duvets, and wool doesn’t seem to be working out, is a feather topper our best bet? I would expect a high-quality feather topper would be more comfortable than my old, stacked duvets. I do not want another latex layer (and not interested in Talalay) and want only natural materials that provide pressure point relief and nest-like comfort.
Any advice and insights would be most welcome!
Thank you,
Brenda