Hi all,
I’ve been in a bit of struggle for the past decade or so getting my sleep in order. I’m a very dense person… everyone always undershoots when they guess my weight by like a quarter of my actual weight… and my fiancee and I combined are ~300 lbs.
I’ve tried some expensive memory foam options installed by a pro only to find that they begin to sink and give me pains after a year or two. I moved on to a 100% wool stuffed 7 inch mattress only to find that they exact same problem happened.
With the wool mattress I used a platform bed I bought off of wayfair. It had wooden slats that were approximately 4 inches apart. I read the specs and installation instructions and cut some identical slats and even installed more center support beams in the foundation so that the slats were now only about 1" apart. I’d guess they were app 7/16ths of an inch in thickness too.
When the mattress failed, I bought a brentwood home crystal cove dual sided hybrid mattress and sleep on the charcoal (lol) foam side. Right about a year later when the warranty expired, I’ve been getting the exact pains I got with the wool mattress.
The slats were buckling down, even with the center support and creating a sort of ‘hammock.’ I freaked a bit and ripped my entire bed frame apart (by hand) and threw the mattress on the floor.
Which has been GREAT. Which is making me distrust just about all the advice I find online regarding wooden slat foundations. And also sort of makes me think the problem isn’t really the mattress.
Either the wood in the wayfair was simply not thick enough or the design is extremely bad at spreading pressure evenly, which is very important for my specific problems.
In any case, my partner detests the mattress on the floor look, so we bought a brass bed frame. Problem being that we have to decide on a new foundation.
I’m not sure if maybe I should trust that the wayfair slats were thin crap (the frame sure was) and try the slat thing again and trust a different company can pull it off differently?
Maybe I should craft a homemade torsion box?
Maybe a modern box spring is the way to go (I live in New Jersey and I’m not sure there’s really any companies making anything here)?
Interested to read some opinions.