Hi Sharin,
Welcome to the Mattress Forum!
You’re very welcome.
Technically speaking, memory foam can be classified as a slow-recovery type of polyurethane foam, so I wouldn’t be able to say what was in your mattress without performing “mattress surgery”. If it was sold to you as a memory foam mattress, typically those mattresses would have a base core of polyfoam, then maybe a little more polyfoam on top of that (perhaps a bit softer) and then maybe some memory foam on top. So, just as an example, you could have a 10" “memory foam” mattress. It might have a 6" dense and firm polyfoam core, then maybe a 2" “transition” layer of a bit softer (lower IFD/ILD) polyfoam, and then on top of that 2" of visco-elastic memory foam. Of course, it’s also entirely possible that your mattress could be multiple layers or even a solid block of polyfoam.
I’m sorry to hear about your arthritis. Keeping the pillow between your knees certainly can assist with the stresses on the Iliotibial band and hip flexors on your hip that is not being slept upon, and also help with tenderness where the two knees would usually touch, but as you’re aware it won’t assist with pressure point relief on the hip that is in contact with the mattress. It is common when developing arthritis that you would desire a bit more surface plushness.
The good news is that there is a topper thread here that discusses the various toppers available, and there is also a link there for online retailers of these toppers. The key would be to make sure that your base mattress is not sagging and is still providing good alignment, which you seem to indicate it is.
Subject to first confirming that any retailer or manufacturer on the list that you wish to visit is completely transparent ( see this article ) and to making sure that any mattress you are considering meets the quality/value guidelines here … the better options or possibilities I’m aware of in and around the Montreal area are listed in post #276 here . I can’t keep track of the inventory in each store, so you’ll have to do some phoning to find out which stores currently might currently offer toppers for you to sample.
Hopefully the information in the topper thread (more than likely focusing upon latex or memory foam based upon you wish to avoid wool and down), and any local retailers you visit, will be assistive in getting you some pressure point relief. And as a topper will perform differently on your mattress at home as opposed to a showroom mattress you might try, you’ll also want to investigate any potential return/exchange polices of any business you visit in the unfortunate circumstance where things don’t turn out as well as you had expected.
Good luck!
Phoenix