Hi everyone. I have been reading this forum for about a month now, although in retrospect I should have discovered it before I purchased a bed instead of afterwards!
In short, I am in a trial period for an all-talalay mattress and I’ve been struggling to make it work for me. I can’t seem to find a happy medium, and regardless of how I arrange layers (it’s 3, 3" layers, plus a topper), it seems it’s either too soft or too firm, or there’s just something that feels “off.” I was beginning to think I was one of those people who just would not be able to adjust to an all-latex bed, as much as I wanted to. I must admit (sheepishly) that I did not try any beds before purchasing online, and I went with talalay because I thought it was “better.”
On a whim today I went to the Clean Bedroom showroom in NYC and tried out a few beds, including a few organic innersprings. The good news is that I think I’ve decided I don’t want another innerspring (it feels good to cross at least one type of bed off the list!). The bad news is that I (reluctantly) tried a few all-latex beds and was surprised that they felt nothing like mine. Turns out these beds were comprised of all-Dunlop. Having never tried dunlop, I didn’t realize there was such a different feeling to them, and my preliminary thought is that the problem might not be that I’m not a latex person, but that I’m not a talalay latex person. I tried the Naturally Organic Oyasumi and the Natural Organic Oyasumi Dream, preferring the latter (of course - more expensive!). It’s hard to describe the difference to anyone who hasn’t tried both, but the dunlop gave me the softness I want on top, and the firm base I feel like I’m missing somehow in my bed. And it just felt more…solid. Not squishy, not jiggly or jello-like - but more like memory foam, without the sink hole or the chemical bath.
I’m somewhat concerned about the longevity of dunlop, the breathability, and its ability to resist body impressions. It seems that no matter what or how much you read, you’ll always find opposite opinions about both: Talalay lasts longer, dunlop lasts longer, talalay resists body impressions, dunlop is denser and resists sagging, etc. Having never considered dunlop before, I’m a bit behind the curve and feel like I know more about what to ask re: talalay.
Has anyone had experience with both, who would be willing to share their experiences? I realize that one of the most important factors is how the bed feels to me, and which type works better for me - but I’m still interested in people’s opinions about dunlop (and particularly if anyone has tried either of these beds).
I’m also a little leery because there is no exchange period and no refunds on these beds, but honestly after 1 1/2 months of swapping layers and purchasing more pieces and trying so many configurations (not to mention the countless hours I’ve spent considering other possible configurations I might try if I just ordered different pieces), I’m worn out. I think having many options available might work well for some, but I think if I could just try out a bed for an hour in a showroom and be pretty sure it was comfortable for me, I’d sacrifice the ability to make comfort exchanges and just make this bed work for me!
Thanks for your time!