I’ve made a few posts, trying to gather info. I’m working on a DIY build, and am nearing the point of purchasing. For reference, I’m 5’9, 370, mostly back sleeper. Wife is 5’7, 125, mostly stomach/side sleeper.
I currently have a king size Beautyrest Black with the T3 coil unit that’s about 5.5 years old. The top layers are sagging, but I’m assuming the coils are still good, so am planning to cut it open and reuse the coil unit (~8" depth).
On top of that, I was considering two 2" Dunlop latex layers. For the transition layer, I’d like to do a split configuration so that we can customize firmness and change layers as they wear (with me being much bigger, I’m sure I’ll wear my side faster). Then, a single topper since I’ve got small kids that crawl into our bed, and don’t want them getting stuck in a crack mid-bed. I’ve read natural Dunlop is most durable, and I’m looking for something that will work for my weight. I’m leaning toward 2" layers so the mattress doesn’t become too thick/soft; our current mattress is 15.5" and far too soft, which I know is some about material, but I’ve read thickness matters too.
We got to go into CozyPure and lay on their beds. I liked the feel of their medium Dunlop (12" model which includes a medium 2" convoluted comfort layer), while my wife liked the feel of their firm Dunlop (again 12" model which includes a medium 2" convoluted comfort layer). I don’t know the ILD of those mattresses/layers. I’m not trying to recreate the CozyPure mattress…that’s just the only local place we had to try latex and get a gauge of firmness.
My thought for the layers is to order from Latex Mattress Factory. For a comfort layer, I was looking at the medium (28 ILD) king size 2" topper. For a transition layer, I was considering their Firm (38 ILD) twin XL 2" for her, and am torn between the medium (28 ILD) or the firm (38 ILD) for me. I know I’m a bigger guy, and don’t want to make it too soft, but also don’t like a firmer mattress, so don’t want to go to hard. I also know she’s smaller, and while she likes firm, I don’t want it to be uncomfortably firm.
Disclaimer: I accept that I probably won’t get it right on the first try, but give that I"m planning to cut up my current mattress, I’m trying to at least get into the right ballpark. I’m fine spending some money to order additional layers if something doesn’t work in order to figure out the right build…still cheaper than buying an “S-brand.”
So the questions:
Would a build of T3 coils → 38 ILD 2" Dunlop → 28 ILD 2" Dunlop be too firm for my wife’s size?
Would a build of T3 coils → 28 ILD 2" Dunlop → 28 ILD 2" Dunlop be ok for my size, or do I need the firm transition layer?
Is a 28 ILD comfort layer appropriate, or is this firmness better as a transition layer?
Is there a better source of 2" layers in an intermediate ILD? Should I be looking at something closer to, say, 32 ILD for one of the layers? Or another thickness?
EDIT 1: I just spoke with a gentleman from Latex Mattress Factory, who thought a total of 4 inches of latex might not be enough for my size, and recommended a minimum of 6 inches (2x 3" layers). He suggested finding a place to try talalay latex as well…we only have access to Dunlop in our immediate area, but could get to a dealer that sells Talalay a couple hours away. He also expressed hesitancy about anyone my size on a coil system, and recommended a latex core. We generally liked the idea of coils for airflow, perceived durability, and any additional bounce that may be helpful in marital activities. ADDITIONAL QUESTION: is there a coil unit that would be appropriate for someone my size, particularly with 6" of latex on top? Thoughts?