I could use some help with a DIY mattress build.
I slept on Sealy Posturepedics for many years, but about 10 years ago, they stopped working for me. I’ve since tried Tempur-pedics and a Leesa original mattress. With each mattress, it feels good for a few months, but my pelvis eventually ends up sinking down too far and irritating my low back. I seem to have a narrow range of support that feels good to my lower back when I’m on my back or sides. I also need a lot of pressure-point relief.
I tried flipping over my 2-year-old Leesa mattress and putting a 2-inch memory foam topper (ILD 11) on the support side (ILD 32). That was really comfortable and supportive, on both sides and back, for a couple of months, but then my hips sank in too far.
Now I’m experimenting with DIY. I got a few individual polyfoam and latex layers and have been trying different configurations, but nothing is great so far. My current setup is:
2" memory foam (ILD 11)
3" latex (ILD 20, a 1-inch layer folded in thirds)
3" latex (ILD 30, a 1-inch layer folded in thirds)
4" HD foam (ILD 35)
4" HD foam (ILD 50, bought before I found out that firmer isn’t always better)
foundation: adjustable base
It’s a little too soft for my low back, but with thinner comfort layers, I sink down and hit the 35 ILD support layer, which is uncomfortably firm for me.
I like the feel of memory foam and of inner springs. I don’t like the bounciness of all latex, though I don’t mind some latex layers.
So. I seem to like (2-year-old) ILD 32 but not (new) ILD 35 in a support layer. I’m happy to replace any layers in my setup. I’m considering pocket coils as a support layer, since polyfoam may not give the support and durability I want.
My physical specs: 5’5", 160 pounds, female. Weight pretty evenly distributed, with narrower hips and a round belly. I sleep about 70% on my back and 30% on my sides. Partner is about 6’, 160 pounds, male, back sleeper almost exclusively. We have similar mattress preferences, though his tend more toward firmer mattresses.
Any recommendations for pocket coils or another support layer? And for comfort layers that give a cushy feeling and good pressure-point relief?
Thanks.