Don’t know what happened, I responded to this earlier, and the message didn’t show up- guess I deleted it!
Conky-
Coincidentally, in December, we replaced our guest futon and master bedroom mattress with the two options you mention here.
We bought the 10" Tuft and Needle, queen, for our own nightly sleeping.
For the guests, we replaced a 10 yr old+ cotton/polyfoam/innerspring futon with a cotton/foam combo futon from a local retailer (the Fantasy III model here: http://www.marysfutons.com/futon-mattresses.html) I should mention this was an “emergency” purchase after our old futon got ruined while we were out of town and got back to find out guests were arriving soon after our arrival…
The futon and the TN feel completely different to me, although the differences are hard to describe.
They are both firm in my opinion, but in different ways.
The futon has no “give” to me- it is a “hard” firm- I feel like I’m laying on a soft ground outside on the grass. I don’t feel “cradled” at all. Now, the futon is new and hasn’t been slept on much- maybe a total of two weeks since December. However, I felt it was only a little softer on the floor model that I tried that the salesperson had said had been out for several months. I ended up getting an inexpensive polyfoam mattress topper from Target for our guests who slept on the futon during the holidays.
The Tuft and Needle also feels firm, but it is more “spongy” or “cushioned” than the cotton/foam futon, although those words are not quite right because the Tuft and Needle doesn’t feel “soft”. I am having trouble trying to explain the feel of the TN, comparing it to the previous futons I’ve slept on because the futon experience is so different than being on just about any other mattress (in my opinion).
If you decide to purchase a Tuft and Needle, a few of things to keep in mind.
First, the foundation can make a big difference. We had a flexible slat foundation for the first week of our new Tuft and Needle, and after we got our wood knock down foundation, the mattress was noticeably firmer to me and my husband.
Second, your body will need time to adjust to a new sleep surface. Even though I was getting no pressure point pain and felt comfortable enough, I was still waking up a few times every night in the first couple of weeks because the mattress felt so different than what I was used to. I had been sleeping on innerspring mattresses for a few decades before the TN foam mattress. I had a weird sensation the first month or so on the mattress- it felt like I was “floating” on the mattress, not sunk in, but if I ran my hands along my side, all of my body parts were indeed “sunk” into the mattress. However, I didn’t perceive any “cradling” effect like I used to on a pillow top mattress.
The Tuft and Needle foam is not “springy” like latex, and one doesn’t feel “stuck” or “sunk” into it like memory foam.
Lastly, the mattress does seem to soften up just a little bit the first few weeks after breaking in. When it first arrived, the first few nights I felt it was very firm. Then it went to just “firm”. Now it feels on the firm end of medium- firm (we all experience firmness/softness differently, but I’m comparing to how mattresses were labelled when I went to local mattress stores to try out mattresses in person).
The couple of nice things about Tuft and Needle is the easy order and delivery to home process, and the ability to get a 100% refund if it doesn’t work out. We haven’t had to use that part of the deal- both my husband and I are sleeping well on the mattress, I in particular am having the best sleep in 20 years. Although the mattress isn’t a best match for everyone, it has turned out to be almost perfect for me in terms of “PPP” that Phoenix is always mentioning.
We are considering replacing our cotton/foam futon with another mattress, and haven’t decided yet if it will be a Tuft and Needle because I know it is firmer than what most of my family members sleep on themselves. The guests that were here in December often sleep on a futon, so they ended up being fine with it. They would probably do okay on the Tuft and Needle, but people who like a softer top mattress probably wouldn’t like it as much, especially guests who aren’t here long enough to let their bodies adjust!
Not sure if any of this helps any, but all I can say, is to me, the feel of a futon and TN are very different.