My current bed is a 15 year old Tempurpedic queen size which is now hammocking on me. I’m one of those people that loves Tempur memory foam but with the current prices of those beds I’m not going to pay an extreme premium for a name. It’s time for a new mattress and Latex has caught my eye.
At 6’ tall, I’m currently sitting at 195 but traditionally my weight has fluctuated between 210-220 and in the past year I got all the way down to 180. This large range puts me between several setups I’ve seen suggested by the experts on here. I’m a 95% Side sleeper with 5% back sleeping thrown in. I’m very sedentary for part of the week while the other half of the week I’m putting in lots of work in the gym, swimming, martial arts, stretching, and doing physical therapy on my back/hips. I’ve had intermittent low back pain for the past 15 years and hip pain now for a several years. For few years now I’ve also had some arm/hand numbness while sleeping.
There’s probably 100 mattress stores around me but they’re all run of the mill S brand stores. Went and laid on a few but all it did is just remind me how I don’t like spring mattresses. Found one local natural sleep store ($$$) that carries latex beds and was able to try them out. I concentrated on the ones with 3x3 layers which were all dunlop and tried f/f/f m/m/f s/m/f s/s/m with both the medium and soft over medium being what I liked. What I really want to try is 3" soft and medium talalay over medium dunlop over both firm and extra firm dunlop. For me logically these combos are what make sense to me of what I think would work the best. There was one model that had a top layer of 3" soft talalay/2" medium dunlop/6" firm dunlop which felt slight firmer than the all dunlop s/m/f. After trying out those beds, seeing the prices, and then having the realization that all they contain are the exact same components of a DIY bed with their brand name embroidered onto the cover and an extra $2000 tacked onto the price, DIY just makes sense to me.
With all of that said I’m facing a few options of where to go next:
Option 1: Buy a $100 airplane ticket to Phoenix so that I can try out the combos that I want in the showroom. I’d then just order it there to be delivered back home.
Option 2: Order a split queen, one side soft talalay/medium dunlop/xfirm dunlop and the other side medium talalay/medium dunlop/firm dunlop. This would allow me to try all the combos and switch them all up to find what I like. I’d then pick what I want to sleep on and the other side of the bed would just be what it is as no one is sleeping on that side anyways plus it would still be pretty close in comfort to the other side.
Option 3: Pre-decide on either s/m/f or m/m/f, order a full queen, then have to possibly play the repackage/return ship game hoping to find the combo that works best within a minimum number of iterations. This seems to be what most people do, but then again most people also buy crap tier mattresses for way too much money in chain stores, so just because everyone’s doing it doesn’t make it the best way.
In closing, I’m happy that this forum exists to spread knowledge and help break people out of an industry that pedals cheap materials for the most amount of money possible which happens in so many areas of our lives these days. Knowledge truly is power and I’ve obtained so much knowledge over just a few days reading through the articles and posts here.