Hi all,
My name’s Chuck, I’m 385 lb (down from 475 and going further down, hoping to hit 300lb by next summer) and trying to find a new full-size mattress (single).
I used to think I was a fan of firm mattresses, just because I felt great discomfort in a saggy mattress and was relieved to find a firm spring mattress years back, even though I had to put a 2" walmart memory foam topper on it to make it more bearable.
Now I got rid of that bed, tried a hammock in the summer (mayan, lay diagonal and it forms a flat plane) but it’s just okay and I got used to sleeping on the floor with a blanket half the time because it turned out I’m a turner, mostly side sleeper, but sometimes stomach or least commonly back and hammocks make that really hard. Plus it’s hard to keep warm on the bottom.
Been looking into a bunch of options like the Tuft&Needle and the Casper. Asked them about weight capacity (500lb per side for 1000lb total on the T&N, 450lb total for Casper which seems too little, might leave a depression over time).
Then I went to Ikea yesterday and to my astonishment, the Margongava was my favorite by far. Described as “medium firm”, it’s an 8" latex that was on one of their boxsprings:
It’s the first “soft” bed I felt in years, where I sunk in but didn’t sag, and was completely supported. It’s kinda out of my budget at $800 for a full and another $400+ for the underneath. Plus I read at sleeplikethedead that people my weight really need something 12" or so.
All the other ikea latex/hybrid beds like the 9.5" Myrbacka were too firm or the 13" memoryfoam topped Sultan Hultsvik reminded me completely of the bed I got rid of. I’d sink in a little bit and then be met with this ultra-firm layer.
I kept going back to the Margongava but I keep wondering if it’s too thin and if I have to get that whole underside. The closest I could find was a Dream Foam UD Freedom as an 11" all latex bed. Gonna ask them if it can sit on slats (<3"). Just hoping this will feel close to the Margongava.
Anyone have other ideas? Been reading a bunch of sources and the excellent articles here, but it’s bleeding out my ears a bit, tbh.