I’ve had a terrible time finding a mattress. I am 61, 5’4" and 117 lb woman with intermittent low back and neck pain. Can be completely fine for a year or more. Usually have one bad flare up a year. Side and back sleeper. Mostly side, but I do turn on back and I have at times slept on back with head elevated (for example when sick.)
I had perfect mattress set up for me: very very firm older mattress with 2" latex topper (likely Talalay but not sure). Had to get rid of it due to odor after 8 years. I’ve tried:
1.Airloom Riviera–Very expensive but most comfortable overall. However, the tufting indentations were almost as big as one of my glutes so didn’t work because put my back in too much extension. Also it was so heavy it was almost impossible to make the bed.
2. Sleep on Latex firm (was too firm and 8-9" way too low). Decided against trying differing configurations because ordering online made it so difficult to get mattress from door to bed. I had to hire guys to move the mattress each time. I might go back to this route though.
3. More traditional Beautyrest Black L (basically firm with memory foam and a little tufting). Feels okay but back not getting better, feels too soft on the surface. I sink in too much. It’s hot. And, it is STILL outgassing after almost four months. One week left to return it.
4. European Sleepworks (Bay Area) hybrid latex mattress with tufting. Supposedly the firmest version of the coils, but I found the top layer way too soft. Slept two nights and that was it for me.
CONCLUSIONS:
- No Tufting
- No micro springs (I think in European Sleepworks bed)
- Need firm mattress with a top that gives but not too much. Not necessarily hybrid unless I create it myself.
- Want at least a 11" high
- Need softer but not too soft upper layer–probably 2’ latex but on top of something really firm again.
Should I go back to trying to get mattress online? It’s a significant hassle and I’m left without a mattress if I return Beautyrest and try this all over again. How do I recreate my beloved original bed set up?
What brand / model of mattress would have NO pillow top and just be a regular very firm quilted mattress? I could put topper on it and try that.
Or if I stay with latex layers, What should I try? I was happy with Sleep on Latex and many seem to say products are good quality. If I order from Sleep on Latex, what layers should I order to make the bed taller? I like the feel of latex better than memory foam.
Thank you in advance!