Hi Phoenix Your Amazing thanks for all your Help!
I need some help/ frank advice to make a decision. To refresh your memory I bought a Live for tomorrow mattress used online. I can’t seem to make the layers function like the mattresses I tried at The Natural Mattress Store and Elsewhere (naturapedic, Organipedic). I am wondering if I made the right decision or if I should get rid of the mattress on CL and start over. IT doesn’t offer the same support that the newer beds I have tried offer, I wonder if its truly natural foam. My parents latex mattress seems much more dense and quality.
I included pics for your review.
How do you tell if the latex is truly natural or quality (it has a organic cotton cover over it). Do I cut the cover and push on it or some other test? The current configuration is medium over soft over firm. I don’t like Soft over medium over firm as I don’t feel as supported and it does not feel as soft. Do I buy a firm piece of dunlop or medium to make 12"? I am a 6’3" 180 back and side sleeper with back problems.
My favorite configurations
Natural Mattress Store (their latex seems to be firmer and more dense):
3" soft tallay - (ild 20-24), 3" medium talalay - (ild 25-30), 3" firm dunlop - (ild 35-40).
3" soft tallay - (ild 20-24), 3" medium dunlop - (ild 20-24), 3" firm dunlop - (ild 35-40).
3" extra soft tallay - (ild 16-24), 3" soft tallay - (ild 20-24), 3" soft tallay - (ild 20-24), 3" firm dunlop - (ild 35-40).
Savvy Sernentiy w/ Harmony topper I liked 4" soft talalay (ild ?), 3" soft dunlop (ild), 3" soft dunlop (ild), 3" medium dunlop (ild)
Select foam will sell me a 80% natural mattress from some company called mountain top foam of C2 Medium C3 Medium Firm C4Firm should I just get this all new?
How do you tell ILD if these companies won’t tell you, natural mattress store won’t tell me, savvy wont tell me, select foam doesn’t know, and brooklyn bed does not know. IF you don’t know the ilds of the layers how do you know how dense the latex is, for instance one company may call their foam firm but it may have more density or latex in it making it hard to determine by soft,med, firm , etc what exactly I need by the mattresses I have tried and liked. If I like for instance a combination yet a online retailer is selling all dunlop how do I recreate the feel I liked with tally and dunlop above with a all dunlop configuration?
Which am I:
Average weight = average thickness and softness of the comfort layers and average support layers.
Above average weight = thicker and firmer comfort layers and firmer support layers
Below average weight = thinner and softer comfort layers and possibly softer or average support layers.
I guess I am curvier so I need soft and thicker comfort layers?
“Uneven weight distribution and curvier than average body shape= softer/thicker comfort layers and firmer support layers many people prefer something that lets them sink in more deeply than they really “need” simply because they like the “cushy” feel”
Typically I like the beds that can support my board shoulders and big lumbar gap in my back while supporting the areas that are heavier or softer.
How do I tell if comfort layers that are much too thick?