I’ve been researching and trying out new mattresses for about a month now.
I am middle-aged, short, and quite overweight (slightly over 210 lbs.), and hope to be losing weight in the next year.
My old mattress and foundation set are…well, let’s say that decrepit is a kind word.
I have occasional minor lower back pain; and sometimes wake up very warm. I don’t want a mattress that will make me any warmer or worsen my back pain.
I am a side and stomach sleeper. I have been recently diagnosed with mild sleep apnea; and my doctor told me, when I asked, that the type of mattress I had would not affect my condition; though he recommended “firm” for my back.
I will only buy a mattress after trying out one in a store; I won’t buy one online.
I live in New England. I have checked out mattresses at Sleepys, Jordans Furniture, Sleep King, Sleep Number Beds, and Gardner Mattress (a local company with a good reputation), and Boston Interiors. I tried a Tempurpedic mattress more than once, but it feels weird and not particularly comfortable.
My bed is an old wooden full-sized bed, inherited from a late friend of mine. It has sentimental value, but not so much that I wouldn’t consider getting a new one. However, I don’t really want to get a new bed immediately, though perhaps I might in the next few years. I’ve noticed that it only has one slat - I think it’s a slat, a board about a half-inch thick that goes across the width of the bed below the mattress; and this slat keeps falling down.
My bed does not support a very high mattress set. The old mattress and foundation are about 13"; and the footboard at its lowest is only about 2 inches higher than that, so if I get a mattress and foundation over 15", they will detract from the aesthetic appeal of the bed.
I would rather pay less than more, but getting the right mattress is important to me, so I could pay up to $2500 or so (for combined mattress and foundation).
The mattresses that I have found the most comfortable so far are:
1) Simmons BeautyRest Legend Firm:
Damask Cover
900 Density Total Beautyrest Smart Response Pocketed Coil Technology 13.5 gauge
Slow Response Trizone Head and Foot NXG center third Slow Recovery Latex (Exclusive Feature)
Transflexion Comfort Technology Handles
Mattress Height: 11.5"
Standard Foundation Height: 9"
Low Profile Foundation height: 5 1/2"
Unfortunately, it has memory foam, which I worry could increase body heat during sleep. It also has a strip of latex, I’m not sure how thick. It did feel quite comfortable when I lay down on it. The Sleepys salesgirl insisted that my body was more perfectly “aligned” on this one. She said I could get a bunkie board instead of a foundation, but at that point I had not considered the issue of only having one ‘slat’; and hadn’t told her.
- Simmons BeautyRest Recharge Luxury Firm (in the “Shakespeare” collection at SLEEPYS):
Main Features
No Flip or Turn
Double Layer of Air Cool Foam
Gel Touch Contours to Your Body
Layer of Pur Foam
Blended Latex Band in the Center Third of the Mattress for Support
Independent Support using Beautyrest Pocketed Coil Technology
Foam Encasement with Ventilated side Rails
Mesh Borders for better Air Flow Handles
Mattress and Foundation Height
Mattress Height: 12"
Standard Foundation Height: 9"
Low Profile Foundation Height: 5 1/2"
This one doesn’t have memory foam; and feels good when I lie down on it. The salesman said that it might not work on a bed without a working slat(s).
- Simmons BeautyRest Recharge Firm (also part of SLEEPYS’ “Shakespeare” collection)
Main Features
No Flip or Turn
Air Cool Foam
Layers of Pur Foam
Independent Support using Beautyrest Pocketed Coil Technology
Foam Encasement with Ventilated side Rails
Mesh Borders for better Air Flow
Mattress and Foundation Height
Mattress Height: 10"
Standard Foundation Height: 9"
Low Profile Foundation Height: 5 1/2"
Pocketed coils.
And no memory foam or, apparently, Latex. The salesman said that the mattress was 11" high. He also said that there would not be enough support for these mattresses with just a bunkie board, given the state of my bed (which I mentioned); I would have to get a foundation. These mattreses apparently don’t need to be flipped or rotated.
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Gardner Mattress Quilted Semi Sacro:
one of their firm mattresses, 9 inches deep. Gardner mattresses are not one sided, they should be flipped at least 2x a year (and 2x a month for the first three months); which won’t be easy for me. The materials are 1.25" polyurethane quilted to a Jersey/Cotton knit fabric (on top), 9 oz. cotton ticking, 3/4 polyurethane topper, 2.oz. densified polyester pad 2", 1 1-inch to 1.5 inch thick cotton felt layers (two of them), .5" Crown insulation pad, Chaisson Air loomed insulation pad 1/2", then the offset coils. -
Gardner Mattress Quilted Sacro:
the medium-firm of the three Sacro models. I believe it has similar material, and is also 9" deep. They have a low profile foundation which is either 4 inches or 5.75 inches. -
Gardner Mattress Quilted Full Sacro - the firmest of the Sacro mattresses. All three felt very firm, almost too firm, when I first tried them out; then somewhat better.
I had no back pain when I left the Gardner store, though I had a little when leaving the SLEEPYS store.
I have read somewhere that Gardner mattresses feel even firmer/harder than in the store.
I have spent a lot of time on this, and still feel like I don’t understand everything, but I can’t devote that many more hours/days; I have too much more to do, so I’m hoping for some input to help me focus and come to a decision.
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Do you think, given the size of my bed (not enough room for a deep mattress and foundation without their being seen above parts of the headboard) and its condition (only one slat, and it’s fallen again), any new mattress I get will sag and deteriorate faster, or I should get a new bed before getting a new mattress? Is it possible to buy new slats, or boards, and hire someone to put them where they should be under the mattress? I don’t want to get a new mattress if it’s going to start sagging sooner due to the lack of support/frame under the bed. Should I get a foundation rather than a bunkie board (is it true that a bunkie board wouldn’t support a mattress well enough on a bed without slats?)
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Is it true that Latex and Memory Foam can increase body heat?
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Opinions on the Simmons BeautyRest Recharge line and/or the Sleepys chain?
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Should I just go for what mattress feels most comfortable when I lie down on it for 10 minutes (or 15)?
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Do all new, just-delivered mattresses feel harder/firmer than the store display models? Would a mattress that feels a bit too firm in the store soften up in time, or, if I get a pillow top (or some kind of mattress topper) to put on top of it, would that increase back pain?
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Can I believe anything that the salespeople tell me, particularly at SLEEPYS (where one salesgirl, who seems very competent, goes on and on about her training to ascertain how well my body is aligned on the various mattresses)?
I’d appreciate any input, since I am tying myself in knots about this. I’ve never bought a mattress for myself before.