Hi ZhivagosGirl,
You can just click on the search link I added in the last post. If you just do a “regular” search instead of a “title search” you will get way to many hits. This way you will have many hits as well but you can just scan the content without having to click on each link that it brings up.
Each person would be different in their preferences of course when it comes to “feel” but if I was in your shoes … and depending on budget … I would probably go with a fiberbed (down alternative) which are widely available, fairly low cost, and good value (you can do a google search for down alternative topper) or with a “shredded” latex topper such as the Seven Comforts (less poofy and firmer than a fiberbed) (Edit: see post #52 here first if you are considering ordering this topper) or the Lanoodles (I havent tried this but it is similar but likely softer but more expensive than the seven comforts) or with a wool fleece topper such as the snugfleece mentioned in post #3 here (along with other types of wool toppers).
Post #10 here also has some good information and resources for “fine tuning” your mattress with different types of mattress protectors, mattress pads, and toppers.
Phoenix