Hello,
I was looking for a way to post questions to the whole general forum including Phoenix and not clear on how to do that. If needed you can repost this elsewhere…
There are two threads within this post… The first is questioning mattress toppers to try to modify what I have. The second is the feeling that what I have isn’t going to work, so questioning other options.
Last year I did a lot of research on mattresses and fortunately found TMU for guidance. I narrowed my search to 3 mattresses and went with a Spindle all latex mattress (medium firmness). In a zippered case there are 3 layers of three inch latex that can be re-positioned to tweak the feel. I’ve spent many months (close to a year) working with the mattress to try getting the comfort and support that’s comfortable for me. The mattress is way to firm for my pressure points, but I know from re-positioning the layers that going softer is not giving me proper postural support - - my low back is then in pain. After purchasing the mattress I didn’t want to spend more on a mattress topper, so I played with layering extra bedding comforters I had on hand for a cushioning effect. It helped some, but is not going to work as a long term solution. I looked at some shredded latex and sculpted latex toppers on the CozyPure and FloBeds websites. Does anyone have advice from experience, or an opinion, on whether putting a latex topper on top of an all latex mattress would make any difference or make any sense? I’ve never liked the feel of memory foam. Wool seems like it would pack down and be too hard. I was trying to avoid synthetics and foam.
In my early 30’s I got to sleep on an all latex mattress for about 5 weeks while away in the Netherlands. I don’t know what kind of latex mattress that was, but it was the best & most comfortable sleep I ever had. I always hoped to one day have an all latex mattress, however this current mattress feels like it’s not going to work for me. Perhaps I just haven’t found the right latex mattress, or perhaps now at age 46 it’s not right for my body type? I don’t feel like I’m getting the proper support from the latex mattress I have, but it is also too firm and my body hurts sleeping on it.
Until my later 30’s I had slept on a basic innerspring mattress that was more firm and that felt good to me up until then. Then my hips and side of arm started getting really sore and it was affecting my sleep. In my early 40’s I got a softer mattress. I don’t know the details except that it was an innerspring (not with wrapped coils) and supposedly had a layer of talalay latex on top. It was called a “eurotop” and was more plush. It seemed good at first, but unfortunately, I didn’t know about proper bed frame support for heavier mattresses and it soon developed a sag in the middle. Over time, even that mattress hurt my hips. Next came this all latex mattress. I am a side sleeper. I’m about 5 ‘4’ and 112 pounds. There’s not much extra flesh padding around my hips or shoulder pressure points. It seems I’m just becoming more sensitive. Right now, I don’t think my hips and shoulder are sinking into the mattress and they get so very sore. I think it feels like that’s causing my waist section to drop down and curve out of alignment rather than being supported.
The other 2 mattress in my initial top 3 were the “EOS Classic” from Naturpedic and the “Natural Escape” from My Green Mattress (both are pocketed/wrapped coils with 3" dunlop latex on top). At that time I didn’t feel comfortable buying a mattress online without trying it, so I ruled out My Green Mattress. I got to try the Naturepedic in person and it felt So wonderful, however in the end the price tag just seemed too much and not comfortable to me, so I ruled that one out. I am in the Boston area, so I went to the Spindle showroom in person to try out the mattress. I realize now how that doesn’t make any difference, because the one I tried there didn’t feel like the one I received.
I have put off for too long the decision to return it, because it seems like such a hassle and it is a very well made mattress. The customer service people at Spindle have been so helpful. Also, I was dreading going back to research mattresses again and trying to choose something else… and then what if the next one is worse that what I have, etc.
I do think it might be better for me to go back to an innerspring. The individually wrapped coils with latex on top seems like it might be better for me. At this point I’m not as wary of buying online. I called My Green Mattress, but I think from talking to them and all the reviews that their mattress would also be too firm for me. And Natuepedic still seems too expensive. I started looking at the “Ultimate Hybrid” and “Eco Sleep Hybrid” from Arizona Premium Mattress. They sound great, however, reading about construction is so different than experiencing it… For instance, I tried another local place, Gardner mattress…they have really nice mattresses and some wrapped coils with latex, but I found everything in their store too firm (I think they are known for having firmer mattresses). So, I am really not sure what to do. Take another chance on a mattress, or try to keep modifying what I have with toppers and hope that the trial expense doesn’t get to be as expensive as the Naturepedic mattress. ?? If anyone has any suggestions I’d appreciate it. Thank you very much.