Hello! I’ve probably been doing way too research, so I have analysis paralysis! I’m 45 years old, 135 pounds, 5’6”, side sleeper with sensitive shoulders and pain in my elbows and hands while sleeping. I’ve been sleeping on a SleepOnLatex medium (the older version with 4” 34 ild dunlop on top of 4” 46 ild dunlop) for about 2.5 years with a LaNoodle topper. This configuration was acceptable until recently, when I realized I was tossing and turning a lot and having trouble with my arms falling asleep.
I ordered some different toppers to put between the LaNoodle topper and mattress as a sort of transition layer. I tried 2” medium dunlop, 2” soft dunlop, 2” super soft talalay, 2” medium talalay, and 3” medium talalay. The best seemed to be the 2” medium talalay. I’ve been on this configuration for about a month (SOL mattress, 2” 28 ild talalay, LaNoodle topper) and it’s better. I really like how my toppers feel, but as the night goes on, I become more and more aware of the firm slab underneath me. But when I tried 3” of medium talalay, it just felt like too much: a bit unstable and harder to turn over. So my best guess is that my base mattress is just a bit too firm for me to get the comfort I want as a side sleeper. I feel the urge to add thicker/softer layers to distance myself from the firm base, but then it feels unstable, my hips dip too far, and I get lower back pain. I didn’t try the 3” medium talalay without the LaNoodle topper, as I struggle to sleep directly on latex. I like that the LaNoodle topper takes the edge off.
I’m wondering if I would do better on a latex hybrid mattress as a side sleeper. In the past, I had a diy build that worked well with 8” Bolsa coils, 3” medium dunlop (outside the mattress cover, as the cover was too stiff), with the LaNoodle topper. Granted, this was 5 years ago, so this exact build may not work for me, as I feel my comfort needs have changed over time. But I remember having the springs felt nice. I also had a Brooklyn Bedding Bloom hybrid, which was the only bed in a box that I liked. It was comfy and required no topper because the top ticking was amazing. I moved and had to give it away. When I got to my new state, I ordered another Bloom. Sadly, it was like a completely different mattress: way too soft, springs had no support, my partner and I had rolled into the middle in a pit by morning. It got returned.
I’ve started looking at different hybrids and the Nest Owl caught my eye because it has 3” of talalay over springs and the cover appears to be plush because of the quilted polyfoam. I’m hoping it would feel like a traditional pillow top mattress instead of the firm latex slab that I can feel under my toppers. I’m concerned as I’ve ordered a couple different bed in a boxes previously and was underwhelmed by them. Also, the bad reviews of Nest scare me, particularly regarding the springs sagging. It sounds like this was a known issue, and I don’t know if it’s been resolved. The only reason I’d consider at least trying it is the 365-day trial period, during which I would monitor the springs. I also think the Owl is expensive for what you are getting. I realize you are prepaying for the comfort exchange layer. Lastly, I’m slightly concerned about it containing silica.
I just haven’t been able to find a latex hybrid that has a similar cover to the Owl. I’m guessing because people shopping for latex are likely turned off by polyfoam layers? I like that it looks like a traditional mattress and I’m guessing the polyfoam layers help the latex to not have as much pushback. Most of the latex mattresses I see have a stiffer cover quilted with wool (Sleep EZ, Latex Mattress Factory, Arizona Premium Mattress, etc), and those make me feel like I’m on a drum. Are there any other options I may be missing? I guess I’m wishing for a latex hybrid that has a cover where the top ticking is comfy enough that I wouldn’t need to add one or two toppers. Or am I better off just finding the best quality hybrid and adding toppers again? The other option I’m considering is the Turmerry DIY hybrid, as it looks like it may have better quality coils than the Owl. It doesn’t have the nice, puffy pillow-top look like the Owl, but I could put my LaNoodle topper on it.
Any advice you can give is appreciated!