Lost and need help

I am looking to get a new mattress and I dont know where to begin. I have severe degeneration in my thoracic and cervical spine and my current mattress leaves me waking up worse than when I laid down. Im extremely restless when I sleep so I can’t say how I sleep only that I usually start on my stomach or side and roll alot through the night. The other issue is that my wife and I are wildly different sizes, I am 6’ 190 lbs and she is 4’11 110, so the firmer beds leave her hurting in the morning. Please help!

No idea what your budget is but given the different sizes (BMIs) between you and your wife I would definitely suggest using a split bed configuration so you can tailor each side to the person perfectly. Latex works very well for this but there’s obviously alot of other options as well.

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