Hi. I’ve been having a very tough time with mattresses. I hurt/strained my back about 2 months ago and have ongoing stiffness and minor to moderate pain which contributes to not sleeping well. Up to that point when back was strained, I had sometime been sleeping on a somewhat firm couch and also sometimes on my old king koil plush mattress which is/was my main bed (twin). My roommate sleeps on a firm mattress. It seemed that my old plush mattress overtime had oversoftened and was contributing to my back pain so I set out to get a new mattress here in NYC. I tried local furnitures stores trying to save money but most of these mattresses were too firm or obviously bad quality and/or refurbished.
I’m mostly a side sleeper. It seems my back generally likes plush mattresses. A little softer (more give) than medium firm, but not too soft. My back and body seems to hate memory foam or any foam that has a “softness” where you sink in and then are stuck - no bounce or easy ability to move - this feels terrible to me. Softish/give with support feels best. Firm mattresses are very uncomfortable to me - I’ve tried to adjust to one but it doesn’t work. For some reason, I can sleep or used to be able to sleep ok on a somewhat firm couch I have for brief periods. Maybe because it is not totally straight and because of positioning I don’t know.
I’ve been using Raymour and Flaniggan for my most very recent mattress purchases - the old plush king koil i had been using (which was evenly soft but not sinky stuck soft) for past few years was from there. I bought three different ones over the past month, (sealy essential hillside plush, bellanest imperial plush and serta deluna plush ) all twin plush and all were uncomfortable (sinky soft mostly) and unreturnable the way I bought them. I used R and F because they will deliver next day and bring it up three flights. Anyway, I’ve wasted a lot of money. Over 2.5k.
Currently, I have a somewhat medium firm “Eclipse” twin mattress from a local furniture store that I’m friendly with that actually for a cheap mattress seems ok quality but is a little too firm. I’m currently trying to soften it a little and ordered egg crate foam (not memory) which I recall using in the past to good effect. At this point I’m just trying to get some sleep.
Longer term though, I was wondering if anyone had any suggestions on mattresses in NYC. I’ve head of craigs beds but seems he mostly sells one brand. I’m a little limited in what I can do since the back pain issue so can’t carry heavy things up the stairs and it’s also tough even trying out mattresses when your back hurts which is my biggest problem…