My husband and I are looking to upgrade our bed to a king size bed, and thus need a new mattress.
Embarrassingly, we are still sleeping on a Otis Haley 110 foam futon mattress (medium firmness) that we purchased in 2011 on an Ikea wood slat bed.
We are both medium sized (5’5", 140 lbs and 5’10", 170 lbs). I sleep on my stomach (80%) and side (20%), he sleeps on his side (70%) and back (30%). I know a firm mattress is generally recommended for stomach sleepers but I prefer something with some give or else my arms fall asleep.
The Otis mattress was great to start with but quickly formed divots/indents on each side but now it’s so old and compressed that the divots have evened out. We otherwise don’t have much issue with it, but I don’t want to buy it again because of the years we spent with the divots.
I am wanting something high in quality and luxurious in feel, but not drifting too far away from the feel of the foam mattress. I am hesitant to try memory foam or latex because I’ve never tried those.
I’m potentially interested in a basic mattress with a wool topper, because I’m hitting my mid-40s and heat is becoming more of an issue, but also open to a hybrid style mattress as long as it doesn’t feel like the old style springs. Our budget would be <$3k.
What are some options that feel most like “regular” foam, but are more durable and luxurious than the Otis mattress?