Hi Everyone,
Very new here. To (try) make a long story short, I just came back to visit my elderly parents yesterday (88 dad 82 mom) and found out they are in worse shape than I thought. My mom cannot get into their bed any longer as it’s too high (the mattress is sagging as well) so she sleeps in a very old recliner that seems terrible. (Need a new electric lift recliner if anyone has recommendations!) My dad is bed bound, so he eats and sleeps there nearly 24/7.
After quickly researching as much I can in several hours (my siblings found this site a while ago but won’t help as they’d then have to help pay for everything) I’ve determined they absolutely need an adjustable split king bed to help my dad raise to eat and take meds. The foot rise option would greatly help my mom with her swollen legs. Win win.
So adjustable bed and from reading a latex mattress seems to be best.
Mind you I have to order TODAY. So here’s what I’ve rounded it down to:
Base:
Leggett and Platt Scape
Or
Reverie 5D King (2pc Split)
Mattress:
Organic Latex Mattress 9,000 (9 inch) California King Split (SleepEZ)
Or
9" Botanical Bliss Latex Mattress (Plush Beds)
Again from quick reviews I’ve also rounded it down to ordering from SleepEZ or Plush Beds online. Though I can be swayed to buy from elsewhere. Their bed now is 29 inches high so I need something significantly lower than that. The L&P base is 15" I believe and the Reverie can be adjusted even lower, so with a 9 inch mattress that should be low enough.
As far as firm/soft, my dad could sleep on rock since he has severe dementia. He doesn’t know firm from soft. My mom would like a little “softer” mattress but not sinking into it. He is 175lbs and she is 205lbs. They cannot go out of the house so it’s impossible to take them to any local stores even to test anything out. That’s ALL I have to go on when ordering a mattress. Ugh.
Any thoughts on these two adjustable beds and mattresses? How about the online retailers? (We are in the Northern Virginia area) Our budget is $5000 or less. The SleepEZ combo is $4500. The Plus Bed combo is $4896.
I know read read read, but frankly I’m desperate. Also, I will have to put the adjustable base together. Is this difficult? I’ll have one person to help move stuff around with me, but I’ll be doing the assembly myself. Does anyone suggest white glove delivery or is it easy enough to do yourself?
Sorry for such questions when I know the information is here. I greatly appreciate any help. I’ll call whoever I order from and get suggestions from them as well. (Won’t mention I’m THIS desperate time wise though to them)
Thank you in advance.