Hi again, we’ve been using a WinkBed Firmer mattress since July. It’s been 90% of what we want, but unfortunately has one drawback for me: it’s started forming body impressions where I sleep. They will go away after we rotate the mattress but then slowly come back.
Honestly, I could probably live with them, and some people might not even notice them, but I’d rather just return the mattress while we’re in the return window. Apart from that, the WinkBed has been fine. But if there are body impressions (though not deep enough to qualify for the warranty) after less than four months, I’d rather not gamble as to what the mattress will be like in a few years.
I’m a 6’0", 190 lbs., male side sleeper but prefer firm, supportive beds that don’t sag. I have occasional lower back pain and a sag or depression under my back/hips can aggravate it. I really need good support under my back and hips but can tolerate more “give” elsewhere. Most mattresses in stores feel slightly too “yielding” to me.
My wife is 5’6”, 125 lbs., mostly back sleeper and likes firm or medium mattresses. She likes the Tempurpedic memory foam feel but can do fine with other materials too. We tried out many mattresses in stores and liked the WinkBed Firmer the best.
Unfortunately, I’m starting to think that no standard memory foam or polyfoam is going to give me the support I need for very long. I haven’t yet found a latex mattress to try in person, but I like what I hear about latex. We have a Terra foundation, which has been great so far.
What I’m currently looking for:
- A hybrid mattress designed for heavier people (for extra support and durability)
- Some kind of dense, durable foam (I assume latex?) over strong coils.
- A comfort layer that can easily be replaced when it gets worn out
- A “split firmness” option, so that my side is firm and my wife’s side is medium or medium-firm (maybe even a split King?)
- Ideally, zoned support, so that the part under my back/hips is more supportive than the rest.
- King size
Contenders I’ve found so far:
- Arizona Ultimate Hybrid Coil-Latex – does it have a swappable comfort layer?
- Engineered Sleep Duo Latex – how firm is the firmest latex option? Any advice on Split King vs. “King-Split Support” versions?
- Engineered Sleep Classic Hybrid (extra firm) – I would add a 2” ES comfort layer
- DLX Premier Hybrid or LatexLux Hybrid – sounds promising, but wondering how supportive is the center without zoned coils?
- Sleep EZ Select Sleep Hybrid Latex – does this model have split firmness and a swappable comfort layer?
- Any others I’m missing?
No swappable comfort layer, to my knowledge:
- Big Fig (maybe Classic model)
- Bear Elite Hybrid (I’ve tried and liked, but not sure how well the memory foam layer will hold up)
- Brooklyn Bedding Titan Plus (I’ve tried and liked) - @Maverick, I’ve read that you recommend this over the Big Fig for side sleepers
- Helix Plus
For the ones without a replaceable comfort layer, my thought would be to add a 2” or 3” topper, or ideally two Twin XL toppers, one for each side. Or I could even just keep the WinkBed and add a topper? But would this work as well as a replaceable comfort layer?
I would appreciate any advice or experiences as to (1) whether I’m looking for the right features, based on my needs above and (2) which mattresses would fit my criteria best. Thank you!