Paralysis of choices: DIY hybrid

Thanks for the great site with all the crippling good information. I already know the answer to the questions, nobody can tell me what will work best, but i’m going to ask it anyways!

Me: 6’ 3", 165 lbs. Wife, 5’ 4", 150 lbs, early 40s. Both are roughly 70/30 side and back sleepers. I dont have any major issues outside of snoring when i sleep on my back, the wife has been getting neck pain recently (which she believes is related to the craters in our current coil/pillowtop/1" foam topper mattress). Having some bounce in the mattress is important to us for when the kids are at the grandparents…

Was considering doing a DIY, as it doesn’t look that complicated to put together a very similar bed to commercial options, but for much cheaper. This bed from SleepEZ is pretty similar: https://sleepez.com/products/hybrid-latex-mattress and at 1100$ seems like a pretty good deal. The only small negatives are the latex seems to be dunlop (dont know if that’s really a negative or not, just seems to be the popular opinion here), and really, having firm latex on the bottom of the mattress seems like a waste of resources.

The nuts and bolts of the DIY king size bed:
1 inch lux-r foam from Lux Regular Foam | Foam Factory, Inc. 45$
8" QE Bolsa from 6 Inch Individually Encased Coils | Order 6” Individually Encased Coils - Latex Mattress Factory 380$

Topper options:
3" Talalay from https://www.flexuscomfort.com/latex-mattress-toppers.html $380 (22 ILD)
or:
2" Dunlop medium https://www.flexuscomfort.com/latex-mattress-toppers.html $260 (28 ILD)
2" Talalay soft Talalay Latex Mattress Topper | Order Organic Latex Mattress Topper - Latex Mattress Factory $320 (19 ILD)

We’re both pretty light people and side sleepers, so i know the suggestion is for softer beds. The wife claims to want a medium to medium firm bed, but our current bed has a thick pillow top and a 1" foam pad we placed on it. Would we notice any difference between the 28/19 ILD combo vs the whole 22 ILD slab? If im wrong on the 3" soft, that’s an expensive error. The 22 ILD from flexus does seem to be more of a medium soft versus a soft though. The 2 x 2 gives more options to tweak and swap if Im wrong.

One final question: i see a brentwood bamboo gel cover for 95$ here: Waterproof Mattress Protector With Organic Materials | Brentwood Home
does anyone have any feedback vs a 170$ cotton/poly blend like this Pure Green Natural Latex Mattress Topper | SleepOnLatex
Not against spending more if its worth it, would just like to hear opinions!

Thanks in advance for your expertise!

Going to bump this once in hopes someone has any approval or disagreements to share before I buy :slight_smile:

Pulling the trigger on the 3" talalay. I’ll report on our findings!

How did it go??