I am 5”4 and weigh about 110lbs. Side or back. After weeks of research, had finally decided to look into nest. Hated Nectar since it arrived but better than previous old mattress. Have hip pain and decreased sensation in leg when I sleep on my side. Assume due to firmness. Have used 2” Talalay topper which helped but did not resolve. Saw recommendations for ASH in plush. After looking at their offerings, would really like Finch but medium is the softest. Should I just forget this as an option/ add topper/ or look into a different brand/ need suggestions.
Hi SamD.
Welcome to our Mattress Forum. 
Sorry to hear of the hip pain and numbness from the Nectar.
What I’d actually recommend is reaching out to Nest and explaining exactly the experience you’ve had (topper and all) and asking what they’d recommend. They know their product best and likely have a solution.
The Owl model comes in plush as well.
Do you experience your hip pain during the day as well, or strictly on the mattress?
NikkiTMU