Well it has been awhile since I posted-I hope you are doing well!
I will go ahead and share my return story with Dreamfoam if you are interested:
I returned the 8 inch mattress as you know and it was relatively hassle-free. They like to donate it to a charity and the only trouble I had was finding one who would accept a “used” mattress.
Everything worked out though and that mattress was wisked away.
I ended up ordering the 10" Arctic Dreams mattress and while my wife and I sleep great on it, we may end up returning it as well.
It is a bit too soft so we end up sinking way down into the mattress to the point it is hard to move around on it. Also the edges compress so much it almost kicks you out of bed if you are too close to the edge.
Also, there is a “mountain” (picture a tent) in the middle of the mattress that seems to be there whether it is on our frame or on our floor. The other mattress I returned was the same way.
Perhaps what it comes down to is that I want a ~$300 mattress to perform like a more expensive one!
Will any of these online foam mattresses struggle with edge support and a “tent” in the middle (maybe due to being compressed)?
I think I know now what I need to look for though-a more medium firm option that is 10" thick.
One question I have–is firmness more due to the density level of polyfoam/memory foam or is firmness more due to ILD level? Or are they directly related?
Also, what characteristics in a foam mattress do I need to look for to have the highest edge support possible and to have more of a feeling of laying “on” the mattress as opposed to “in” the mattress?
To put it is perspective, my last mattress was a super-cheap probably 7"-8" inch thick spring mattress with a 1.5"-2" memory foam topper. So I was pretty much “on” the mattress except for the topper.
Anyway, I guess I have more research to do.
I really like Dreamfoam as a company and would consider trying a more expensive mattress from them, but I don’t want to “wear out my welcome”, so to speak, with their return policy.
Thanks for any suggestions and all the information.
By the way, as a total side note-I realize that many of these online mattress makers do not own their factories, but I guess they just give said factory the specs and have them build the mattresses. Do you have any knowledge of what factory Tuft and Needle is made at, or Eve Mattress?