Hi musicman9434,
The links that SallyS provided include the better options I’m aware of that are available to you either locally or online (Thanks SallyS :))
There are too many unknowns, variables, and personal preferences involved for anyone to suggest a specific mattress for someone else based on either specs (yours or a mattress) or “theory at a distance” out of all the thousands that are available in the market. Nobody else can feel what you feel on a mattress and each person’s preferences can be unique so the only way to assess whether a mattress is suitable for you is either with your own personal testing with a local retailer or manufacturer and/or with a more detailed conversation on the phone with an online retailer or manufacturer (see mattress firmness/comfort levels in post #2 here).
The most effective approach to buying a mattress is to follow the steps in the mattress shopping tutorial here which has all the basic information, steps, and guidelines that can help you make the best possible choice … and know how and why to avoid the worst ones.
Phoenix