Thanks again Phoenix for your helpful reply. Also, thanks to previous posts here, especially MikeM’s posts on Los Angeles bed stores, I have spent a few days this week going to Flexus, PJ’s Sleep Company, Urban Wood (Savvy Rest carrier), and Electropedic beds. Unfortunately, this has not led to any definite answers, but I’m hoping that with your help, my thoughts might come together to make some sense.
Generally speaking, I have found that my back feels best on a firmer mattress when sleeping on my stomach, but when sleeping on my back in particular, I feel a lot of pressure in my buttocks unless there is a decent amount of a softer comfort layer.
When I went back to Flexus, the 8" felt good while on my stomach, although I could feel my back flexing as it sank into the mattress. The discomfort seemed minor, and I felt comfortable lying in the mattress for an extended period of time. I asked Henry’s brother, who was working there that day if he would mind taking a look at my posture, and to him, my alignment looked fine. I did feel a little sore in my back after leaving, but on the other hand, I seemed to be walking with better posture. Of course, it might also just have been my mind convincing me that my posture was related to the bed, in order to make up for the soreness.
However, on my back, I began to feel pressure against my buttocks after around 10 minutes. After my buttocks had sunk into the mattress, it felt like the mattress was fighting against my buttocks to rise back to its natural shape. Do you think a softer comfort layer might help to solve this, or is this a result of feeling the firmer support layer? I felt the same pressure on the firmer Elecrtopedic beds, but the softer beds had the same softness for the comfort layers and instead adjusted the thickness of the comfort layers or the firmness of the support layer.
A few of the the mattresses at Electropedic made fully of Pure Latex Bliss tatalay, seem the most comfortable so far. The best was the made of a 6" 28 ILD core, with 1.5" of 24 ILD on each side. (Surprisingly, the ILDs given to me by the salesperson do not match those given by MikeM just a year ago.) I felt my back sink into the mattress only slightly although it felt quite soft in general. The soft feel made it quite comfortable when on my back, with a much less pronounced feeling of pressure on my buttocks. A similar mattress except with a 36 ILD core felt also felt good and supportive, but I ended up feeling pressure in the area around my lungs. When I breathed in, it felt like my body was fighting against the bed, and it felt sore after getting up after 30 minutes. I had the same problem with the mattress with a 28 ILD core and 1" of 24 ILD on each side. If not for this, and slightly more pressure on my buttocks than with the 28 ILD with 1.5" of comfort layers, this probably would have been my favorite feeling mattress.
I was also surprised to try a 24 ILD core with 1" of 20 ILD on each side and found it fairly comfortable. I did not feel my back sink in much at all, although this was the third mattress I tried, so I might not have noticed). On my back, it felt like I was sinking in enough that my legs were the highest part of my body, although I did not feel much of any pressure anywhere. I almost feel that if I was not so used to sleeping on a firm mattress, this one might have actually been comparable in comfort to the two listed above. Given my experience with other mattresses, I don’t know why my back would not have sunk in quite a bit into that soft mattress, could it have been because the comfort layers are so thin? But then again the core on that mattress is the same ILD as the comfort layers of most of the other mattresses I have been trying out!
At PJ’s, I was surprised to find the “medium latex mattress” to feel quite similar to the flexus 8". My back sank in a little, it was noticeable and I could feel it when I got up, but it seems like it might have been a little less than with flexus. The feel seemed somewhat different though, it felt like the sinking into the mattress was a lot less gradual. The mattress quickly responded to my weight, so in that regard, it felt softer than the flexus. Considering that it is made of a 5" 30-35 ILD dunlop core with 5-10 lbs of cotton padding, I would have thought it would feel much firmer than it did. Is there enough cotton in that mattress to give it a considerably softer feel than the latex underneath? The 35-40 ILD firm mattress there has the same amount of cotton in it, and that one felt very firm. On my stomach, the firm was fairly comfortable: good alignment and no real noticeable pressure points, but it still felt like I was sleeping on an incredibly firm surface. Maybe I would get used to this, but it doesn’t seem right to be spending so much money on a mattress that only barely provides any feeling of softness!
The visit to Savvy Rest, seemed relatively uninteresting, and given the length of this post, is probably worth skipping, but I have included my comments for reference. With the Savvy Rest, my favorite was the full Dunlop with 3" layers from bottom to top of Hard (40 and above ILD), Medium (31-39 ILD), Soft (22-30 ILD). I felt like I sank in too much when I first lay on the bed, but when I tried it again later, it felt fine. I also felt good in a Hard (dunlop), Hard (dunlop), Soft (tatalay), in which I did not feel like I was sinking in at all, and I didn’t feel any pressure points while on my stomach, but similar to the firm at PJ’s, it just felt like I was sleeping on a slab of wood (granted one that doesn’t have any pressure points).
The electropedic with 28 ILD core and 1.5" 24 ILD layers on each side seems pretty close to perfect, but unfortunately it is out of my price range. I might try to see if flexus could make something similar at a more reasonable price, but with a tatalay core, it might be on the more expensive side. Also, would the difference in feel between PLB tatalay and that used by Flexus possibly be noticeable? Changing the core to dunlop would significantly change the feel of the bed right?
In general, the idea of a thin 1.5" comfort layer seems like it might work best, but unfortunately Electropedic is the only place I have found that has any you can test, and from what the salesperson said, having the soft layers on each side significantly changes the feel of the bed. Considering this, I feel like it would be risky to order a bed with a 1.5" comfort layer without getting one on the bottom as well. Especially considering that the Electropedic’s comfort layers have the same ILD as on the flexus, but still feels much softer (although this might be due to the softer core), it would not be as simple as just making a thinner comfort layer on top.
Do you think a 1.5" comfort layer of softer latex over the 31 ILD dunlop might feel similar to the Electropedic, or would I need to make the core softer?
I didn’t notice the 2" PLB topper at PJ’s that MikeM said was there, so I might go back and try it out with some of their other mattresses, but given the cotton in their dunlop mattresses, it might not give a good representation of how a 30-35 ILD base would feel with a 2" soft topper (especially since the 30-35 ILD already feels soft to me). It might be worth trying it on the 35-40 ILD though.
If I cannot get a bed that I know would be very similar to the Electropedic, I am thinking I might just go try out the flexus and the PJ’s beds and go with one of the two, because they both felt good in general, especially because I usually sleep on my stomach. It has only been since I have been on the air mattress that I have started to sleep on my back regularly.
My apologies for the long and pointless post, but it is helpful for me just to write out my thoughts, and it would be a huge help if my scattered thoughts make some logical sense to you, which might help to explain why I am feeling what I am feeling and what I might want to be looking out for.
Thank you,
Jesse