Hi ctresident,
When we are testing mattresses in a showroom … especially those that are somewhat close together … perceptions can often become a little fuzzy and the feel of different layerings seem to blend into one another, especially if we compare one mattress to another rather than “forgetting” each one and testing each one against our needs and preferences (and not another mattress).
For example … the first matress you tried had this layering …
Quilting from top to bottom: Cotton fabric, FR fabric, 1/2" Wool, 1"
Euro top layer top to bottom: 2" memory foam, 2" latex 20 ILD
Support system top to bottom: 1.5" medium soft hi performance foam, 1/2" Insulator, 720 Luraflex foam encased coil system.
Your comments were …
This may have felt too firm to your wife but in actual fact part of the firmness might have been because the memory foam didn’t have enough time to soften. This is especially true when there are quilting layers and wool over it which means that the memory foam would take even more time to get softer and this would also be more true for someone who was lighter.
The next step in your sequence was I think …
My understanding is that these two layers were placed on top of another mattress but I don’t know the details of what it was placed on. What was under this 4" would also have an effect on how soft it felt for you. In actual fact … memory foam typically has an ILD of 15 or less but because it takes much more time to get there … it’s softness may not become apparent for a while until body heat reaches it. This 4" latex layer may have felt softer partly because it is “instant” and doesn’t need “time” to get softer and partly because of what was under the 4" of latex rather than because the latex itself was softer than the “time delayed” softness of the memory foam.
But now you have in your mind that the 4" of 20 ILD latex is too soft so you begin to look for something firmer. This leads to testing the 2" of 20 ILD over 2" of 32 ILD. Again … how soft this feels would depend on what was underneath it. If it had some softer layers under it then the firmness of this layering would be partly “hidden” by the layers underneath it.
All of this can lead to “perceptual confusion” because instead of testing for the general “feel” of latex vs memory foam … you are testing for pressure relief and support on a layering which is different from what would actually be in your mattress.
This is possibly what led you to choosing the 36 ILD which in fact wouldn’t feel a lot different from the 32 but if it was over softer layers when you tested it which are not there in the final version of your mattress … then the real firmness of both of them would be much more apparent in the mattress you actually received.
The goal of this type of testing is to get a sense of the general “feel” of the different materials but if the layering you are testing is not the same as those in your final mattress … then your testing won’t be as accurate in terms of pressure relief and support.
All of this is of course compounded because our memories are not so good at differentiating one mattress from another once you have tried a few or at “translating” how certain layers on top of another mattress will feel when they are in the mattress we order which has different layers under it.
So the reason you are not getting the same sinking in feeling is probably partly because the layering you now have is much firmer than either the Nature’s wonder with memory foam or than 4" of 20 ILD latex over another mattress or even 2" of 20 ILD over either 32 or 36 ILD which are both over another mattress.
Either way … I’m guessing that the 20 ILD over the 32 ILD would also have been on the firm side if you had ordered this. Even the 2 layers of 20 ILD latex may have felt firmer if they were part of a mattress which had different layers under it than when you tested this.
A pillowtop would make a small difference over the same layering without a pillowtop construction but not as much as the differences in layering between what you tested and what you ended up ordering.
So to clarify alll of this … it would help to know what was underneath the 2 layers of latex (two layers of 20 ILD without anything else on top and 20 ILD over 32 ILD without anything else on top) … assuming that my assumptions are correct that they were both on top of another mattress or something other than the actual layering of the mattress that you ordered.
Phoenix