Wow, I just stumbled across this website. I’ve been an avid purchaser of new beds about every three years for the past 25 years. I’m realizing that I never really scratched the surface until now, after seeing all the information available here. Thank you to all the contributors.
I’m a 215-pound, 5 foot 11 male with a muscular build, and I’ve been struggling with back pain for 30 years. This led me to buy my first Tempur-Pedic at around 27 years old in the late ’90s. That bed was horrible and probably caused more destruction and breakdown of my back. I sold it a year later for 200 bucks. I’m a side sleeper, and I experience a lot of pain throughout the night, tossing and turning. I actually have more pain at night than during the day. I had always been buying medium-firm beds.
Two years ago, while visiting my mom in Arizona, I slept on a bed that was much softer than what I normally use, and it completely destroyed my back. This made me realize that when I lay on my side, my hips were sinking below my knees and back, causing pain in the exact spot where my pain is centered.
In the past four years, I’ve had three different beds. In 2020, I bought a full latex bed by Essentia from Canada. It felt great in the showroom, but I missed the window for exchanging it before I realized that my hips were sinking into it. I ended up putting it in storage for three years until I gave it to my mom, who loves it. The bed that followed was a fully walled model from Surround Ewe. It was a king size split, 9 inches thick, with a 6-inch wall topper. It took a while to get used to, but it became one of the most comfortable beds I’ve ever had, especially in terms of support for my back issues. However, my lovely wife, who is only 100 pounds, found it horrible for three months because it always felt like she was floating on a cloud and not supported at all (she’s a back sleeper). After a few months, she did start to get used to it, but unfortunately, we lost this bed to a flood in Florida.
We recently moved into a pre-furnished home with a queen size bed that is much smaller than what I’m used to and super squishy. After a month of being here, it’s starting to destroy me, so I’ve been looking for new beds, which I had already been researching for the past six months. The bed we used after the flood was a full-size bed—cheap, but actually pretty firm and supportive. I don’t think I want to go back to the straight full wall bed, but I am interested in wall bedsprings, possibly. Part of me thinks that going back to one of the traditional spring beds from the ’60s and ’70s might be more comfortable than anything out there today. I really hate the feeling of memory foam⬤