On a 4th mattress trial, and so confused by the various messaging online, in-stores, etc. Some say stay away from bed-in-a-box, others say stay away from in-store “s” brands… I’m at a loss. I just want a decent mattress that is going to last a bit.
Here’s some context: I’m female, 150lbs, side sleeper, and my husband is male, 200 lbs, combo sleeper. So far we’ve tried the Saatva classic (too bouncy), Avocado eco-organic (fine but a bit too firm), Nectar Luxe memory foam (we had a nectar before and thought this would still be for us, and I think we’re just no longer all memory foam people); and now we’re on the Helix midnight elite, which is also too firm and giving me horrendous shoulder and back pain. I’m realizing I need a slightly more soft mattress than I thought.
I’m just so overwhelmed by all of the reviews, opinions, etc. I am wondering if you could offer an opinion on a few quality brands that are known to hold up pretty well, and potentially some mattresses that might work best for shoulder, hips, and lower back pressure relief.
If the mattress is a king, why not switch the midnight elite insert for a split comfort insert with a twin xl sunset or moonlight for you and a midnight for your hubby.
Generally shoulder pain should not be from the mattress, but more likely you pillow. The new Helix Elite is a pretty good mattress likely the best of all the ones you have tried so far
Thanks for the reply-- we’re just not sold on Helix altogether, especially now that I’ve done such a deep dive into TMU and these forums. I’m now considering a DXL hybrid soft (I talked to someone there and based on my profile that’s what they recommended) or the Brooklyn Bedding Aurora Luxe. I’ve seen many good things about both, and I have a feeling either would end up being a good fit, but I’m curious if you have a POV as to which might be the better option in terms of longevity. My gut says to try DXL first because their return policy is more flexible (no fee), but I am pretty exhausted by these trials and really would like the next one to be the last. Thanks for your help!