Hi Steve,
I put together a list from all the previous posts that are roughly “rated” according to what you liked, were more neutral about (or is unknown for the purposes of this analysis) or you disliked. I’ll just put the list in this post for reference and then comment about the patterns I see in the next one.
Phoenix
Mattresses you didn’t like so much:
Royal-Pedic (reverse zoned)
Pure Bliss Latex mattress
3" PLB topper on the Pamper and the Nature (2" was a like)
Naturas at B&M feel much firmer and more tightly packed to me (which I didn’t like much)
I was just sleeping on my wife’s soft / medium / soft side, which i think is definitely too soft for me, but the pressure points felt the same as my all medium side. Is it possible that going firmer would actually reduce my pressure points?
Ordered a 2" soft Talalay topper from SleepEZ and put it over the above config. (S/M/F) This is when I started really feeling my hips sink in too far; also, it didn’t help that much on my side, still uncomfortable.
I wanted to try the BeautyRest Black “latex” model again to compare to SlumberEase. I had tried it at Macy’s once before and sort of liked it. This time I thought it was definitely too soft on my back. The salesguy said that the bed has been on the floor for many months and was probably more “broken in” than the one I tried previously. In other words, those beds soften up and start to break down pretty quickly! (NOTE: same as the newer model in the “like” category)
More Neutral or unknown:
Aireloom Vitagenic (Don’t know which you tried and there are several)
New Sealy Posturepedic with Dsi coils (Don’t know which model … firmness level … you tried)
Soaring Heart: The inner spring mattress was set up with the latex topper, and it was pretty nice. The springs were offset open coil and 14 gauge wire, which seems a little light to me. The mattress seemed pretty bouncy, even with the topper on it. My wife wasn’t with me but I suspect she would find it too bouncy. And I would worry about the 14 gauge not holding up. Shoulder pressure was better than on my bed but still there.
- The weird thing is, as you know right now I am sleeping on 9" of medium (well SleepEZ medium, so 31-ish ILD) latex. When I first go to sleep I feel like my back is overbending and its annoying. But when I wake in the morning (usually on my back) my back doesn’t hurt, and it doesn’t feel like its overbending anymore. Does that mean anything to you?
Mattresses you seemed to like:
- I had slept on latex before, but that was many years ago. Bodies change and what was comfortable at 30 isn’t necessarily comfortable at 50. Also, probably more importantly, my old latex mattress had a pillowtop, with non-latex (probably poly foam) in the topper; that surely changed the feel of the bed.
Simmons Beautyrest black Ava (Carmen) firm
OMI
Natura
Simmons (coils) (not sure of the materials over the coils which were the ones you liked)
I felt like my shoulder could have sunk in more on the Simmons and Natura, but at least it didn’t hurt; the soft comfort materials on top seemed to alleviate the pressure points. If only that mattress would last a decent time I might buy it!
Green Sleep with adjustable base
2" topper the Pamper was ok, and the Nature still felt pretty good (which surprised me because I expected it would be too soft). (rated after the Green sleep and Natura though so only "somewhat liked)
I am now sleeping on soft / firm / medium, which seems to be working pretty well. The soft on top finally gets me a little comfort, the firm seems to stop the sinking in and provide about the right amount of support. I spent 3 nights this way, and while its pretty good I still would like more cushion. So I just added my 1" supersoft latex layer. I know it wont change much but hopefully it will provide a bit more comfort. By the way, I added this inside my cover; I suppose it might make more of a difference on top (right under my mattress pad) but its thin and uncovered, so I think it needs to be protected.
So not that much to report. I changed my layers to 1" supersoft over soft over firm over medium, and I’ve been sleeping on that. Seems to be pretty good, although I still change positions a lot during the night and wake up with sore spots on my sides. It’s good enough that I haven’t gone out trying mattresses lately, not so good that I think I’ll wait that much longer
Slumber Ease firm bonnell coils with about 3" of latex or poly on top: I thought the beds were pretty comfortable, although I’m not sure any were the magic one, or even which one I liked best.
Sealy Posturpedic Gel bed they called the Diamond Elite Firm. (sort of liked)
Northwest Bedding (Spokane, Wa) which had heavy gauge (12.75) double-offset coils. Both had high density foam on top; 1 also had some latex in it. They are apparently designed for large people and to be very durable. They are both one-sided. Both were too firm for me but felt pretty good with the PureLatexBliss topper.
Looking at the 1, (NW bedding) it looks like the springs are
“topped by an additional 2 inches of cushion grade medium firm plant-based foam. To this support system is added an additional layer soft, cushion grade plant-based foam. The designer stretch knit fabric is tack quilted to layers of soft, cushion grade plant-based foam and FR fiber to provide a supple sleeping surface.”
At Soaring heart: I decided to try the latex beds too; they were mostly set up with wool toppers. Again, quite comfortable. In both cases (wool-wrapped latex topper on springs, and wool topper on latex) what you felt was some wool and some latex, although the inner spring bed was definitely bouncier and had more life to it, which is both good and bad. I sure don’t make things easy. I’m not really sure which I prefer. I sort of don’t want to get an all wool topper because of impressions and care issues. I am awfully tempted to buy the latex/wool topper and try it on my SleepEZ bed, which I think might be close to right in terms of support and is just lacking proper comfort materials…
My wife and I went back to Soaring Heart today; we both really like the way the 4" wool feels. I think we would like it on almost anything, but they had either organic dunlop or natural (ie pure, unblended, no synthetics) talalay, in either firm (35) or x-firm (44). I didn’t notice much of a difference between the talalay and the dunlop (or even the inner spring?!) or even the firm / xfirm with the 4" wool topper on it. They really pushed the firm and said that most people that buy xfirm end up swapping for the firm.
The one interesting thing i tried at sleep country today that i forgot to mention was a Legget and platt adjustable base. I kept saying how i want to sleep on my back but cant stay comfortable that way for long. Sales guy went into the whole curved back / flat bed thing and suggested the adjustable base. I have to say i liked it. But im still not convinced i could sleep on my back all night even in the “zero g” position…