Can anyone steer me in the right direction? I am getting overwhelmed. I am 5’3", and weigh 113 lbs. Combination sleeper - side and back.
I am sleeping on a 10 year old Serta Dr. Greene Auburn Falls Medium Pillowtop which is in great shape, but has always been too firm for me. I have a 3" Tempurpedic Serenity topper from Costco on it and that’s made it comfortable enough to sleep. I previously had a SOL 3" Dunlop topper and it gave me low back pain every night. I never knew it was from the topper but the day I got rid of it, the back pain stopped.
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I loved the Naturepedic Concerto support, but the pressure relief was not there because it only had 2" of latex, which was Dunlop, and because of my size, the bed had no give. I had excruciating pain nightly in my shoulders and shoulder blades. I wanted to keep the bed because it’s very well made, but I couldn’t tolerate it. I tried putting a 3" shredded latex topper on it and that made it worse, and tried a 3" shredded memory foam topper from Coop on it and that didn’t help enough either.
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I next trialed the Leesa Legend, which was really strange - not supportive, but not soft either. And the zoning killed my hips. I couldn’t wait for the 30 day trial to end. Even with the 3" memory foam topper, it hurt me.
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Recently we check out the Tempurpedic beds simply out of curiosity. I have to say, lying on the Luxe Adapt Hybrid and to the lesser extent the Pro Adapt Hybrid, I felt finally “ahhh…”. But I read constant reports of people experiencing back pain and breakdown, and the beds being rock hard for months. Not to mention I really don’t want to drop 4K on a bed.
As a 2x cancer survivor, I really lean toward a “natural” bed without toxic chemicals. Would a Talalay latex give me the pressure relief I seek? Would putting my Tempurpedic 3" Serenity topper on top of a latex bed soften it enough for me? I feel like I’ve hit a brick wall and it’s such an investment I feel paralyzed. I don’t want to make another mistake. Is latex just not the right product for me?
Is there a “Goldilocks” bed for me that has the great spinal alignment and support I got with the Naturepedic Concerto but superior pressure relief that I require to be able to comfortably sleep without pain (I have lots of spinal issues - cervical stenois, scoliosis, bulging disks, piriformis syndrome which is compression of my sciatic nerve)?