Hi @phoenix
It’s me again. I’ve been searching and trying out mattresses over a month now; though there are some improvements and more knowledge of what I want, I still feel a bit lost - maybe I’m the most undecisive person to buy a mattress, but never thought this would be this hard! My current mattress, I literally sat and laid on it for around 5 minutes and bought it - probably the reason why I am now “traumatised”
So, basically, I went again to try the Relyon Luxry Silk 2850 as it was the one I found the most comfortable. I believe it feels nicer when I’m on my side since it’s a soft-medium, it’s ok too when I’m on my back, but I feel something is missing when I’m on my back, maybe because the pillow top could have further 2cm of thickness? It’s like I feel the comfort layers + microcoils too much when on my back?
The mattress is sitting on a coil sprung divan, also tried on a platform once and noticed a loooot of difference between both bases. I really wanted to buy this one, but I am put off due to it being one-sided pillow top - it mentions it has silk & wool, but doesn’t provide the total GSM, so lack of transparency of how it’s made. The mattress + the divan is £1,940, which my bank account really likes.
I then began communicating more with the founder of Abacca Organics - she even sent me examples of the products (wool, latex, coir) they use to see if I’m allergic to any. However, they cannot provide horsehair as of now, and don’t know when they can, so I am left two options from them - snowdon & chester. What I notice different on their mattresses is, they cover the side with the natural fillings unlike other companies e.g vispring, where the layers sit only on top of the pocket sprung. Their mattresses do not have side stitching like in Vispring. Also, she said it is irrelevant whether to have a sprung divan base or platform base with their mattresses.
She recommended me a medium tension.
Abacca Organics choices:
Snowdon - £2, 245 for 6ft super king
https://www.abacaorganic.co.uk/products/snowdon
Chester - £3, 355 for 6ft super king
https://www.abacaorganic.co.uk/products/chester
I have tried contacting John & Ryan, but I didn’t like their sales and was expecting more. They also do not offer any shipping to Northern Ireland, and would need to organise the delivery myself.
I then found Winstons Beds, to whom I’ve been speaking the last couple of days. I’ve gone to several retailers, also called Vispring directly, and their explanation was the best. The sales explained me how the fibbers work, microcoils, etc. They stated that they used microcoils prior (best ones from Harrison Spinks), but they are really bad as support layers, so they don’t use them anymore. They only sell online, which worries me a bit, as I cannot try their mattresses beforehand. The positive point is, they have 100-days exchange, but I would need to pay 145 for the delivery charge just in case. I also liked the approach; when I first called and explained my body type, weight, back pain, they first recommended me the Ancoats mattress, which is, I believe, one of their mid offerings(lower ones). I then asked for another option, and was advised the Heritage - both are Medium-Soft. Lastly, they include butterfly clips on the edge, which I prefer. I don’t like the too soft edge Vispring mattresses have as I feel I’m about to roll off the floor.
The recommended mattresses from Wintons Beds:
Ancoats - £1,899 6ft super king
https://winstonsbeds.com/product/the-ancoats/
Comfort Layers
English Lambswool, British Fleece Wool & Cotton
Support Layers
British Highland Wool, Organic Flax
The Heritage - £4,500 6ft super king
https://winstonsbeds.com/product/the-heritage/
Topper Comfort Layers - English Lambswool, Hand Teased Shropshire Wool, Hand Teased Alpaca Wool
Topper Support Layers - British Highland Wool
Mattress Comfort Layers - English lambswool, Hand teased Silk, English Wool & Cotton, British Fleece Wool & Cotton, Hand Teased Shropshire Wool
Mattress Support Layers - Hand Teased Long Curled Horsetail, British Highland Wool & Natural Hessian
## I am thinking, maybe, since the Ancoats is cheaper than The Heritage, I could try it and if I feel I need more plush, could get the Heritage pillow top afterwards? Though the fillings on the main Heritage mattress is quite different too - would this be a good idea? ##
Winstons Beds Pillow Tops
Winstons Shallow Pocket Sprung Divan
Questions about WInstons Beds:
1 - I also need a base. Winstons beds are adamant I would benefit from sprung base (theirs have coir + wool and cotton layers on them), and I do believe them, however I’m taking it with a grain of salt because obviously, they also want to sell. I was explained the differences between a pocket sprung and a platform base - is it really required? For example, I preferred a sprung base on the Relyon Luxury Silk, but when I tried Hypnos wool origins 10, I felt sinking in too much and didn’t like it; I think I would have preferred a platform base instead. Is it true I would receive more support having a pocketed sprung divan?
2 - The heritage has 10,600 GSM, and the Ancoats 4000 GSM - is the Heritage a good purchase value as it is really expensive if paired with their divan + headboard set? If I were to buy the mattress + a normal ottoman platform divan, it would be much cheaper.
3 - Is it true that microcoils are bad?
4 - Winstons do not show how the layers are made - Vispring show a literal photo of what’s inside (e.g needled) - does this matter in terms of comfort and durability? Not sure if Winstons only have a compressed layer.
5 - There are several brands who offer natural fibres mattresses - since they are all natural fibers, can a specific company have a better fibber/quality of filling? Is it like buying our clothes, some stores will have a better fabric/stitching quality than others, or since they are all natural fibbers, it is mostly the same?
Ps. They claim it is a bit irrelevant to try a mattress in store as we can’t ensure one is right for us within just 30 mins, and that the display model has been tried by a lot of people, with different weights, and have been broken in, and what I would receive at home could be somehow different because it would be just my body adapting to it.
I am still considering Vispring - mostly devonshire & dartington. There’s also their bedstead offers, but I don’t know where I can try them out. I would like Herald Superb due to the horsehair as I’ve read it supports the soft comfort layers, but I think it’s a bit too firm for me.
Their mattresses, compared to WInstons, carry less GSM, but are more expensive - would WInstons be a better buy? Should I only consider the GSM quantity? Winstons use calico pocket springs as well, but I don’t know if Winston’s springs and Vispring’s differ from each other, or how is their construction. There are a lot of bad reviews from Vispring which are putting me off. Abaca Organics had told me their mattresses used to be the top of the line years ago, but today, the quality mattress falls into the 20k category.
I am still considering two Hypnos mattresses:
Hypnos Wool Origins 8
https://www.hypnosbeds.com/uk/collections/wool/wool-origins-8
Hypnos Pillow Top Luxe
https://www.hypnosbeds.com/uk/collections/pillow-top/pillow-top-luxe
Once again, I am hesitating on the pillow top as it is one sided. I spend a looot of time in my bed, so I need a durable one.
Sorry for such a long post, but I have finally managed to shortlist, I mean, with Vispring, I am still clueless, but I think this is also the retailer’s fault since they aren’t offering enough assistance, neither did Vispring when I contacted them.
It is hurting me to spend around 5k or 6k on a mattress and bed frame, but I also know I need it for my health, perhaps, really hoping it can help me. I know it won’t take away my discomfort or pain, but it would help.
My last questions are:
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Which of these do you think offer a better value in terms of GSM & construction (Abacca, Winstons, Vispring, Hypnos? I think I am leaning more towards the Winstons mattresses, but together with their divan set, it is really expensive.
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I am contemplating more on this due to the difference between the mattress price & the mattress + divan set - is it really required for me to get a sprung divan? Does it really offer more support? Should I follow the manufacturer’s advice? It would be much easier for me if I could put it on a platform as it would be much cheaper.
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Does a headboard need attached via bolts to the divan? The mattress + sprung base + headboard from WInston are supeeer expensive, and I was thinking of just buying their mattress + divan, then get a cheaper headboard somewhere else - it will lean against the divan and a wall, is it going to feel wonky? My mattress is currently on the floor and still have my headboard; it is leaning against the mattress & wall and it’s not too bad, though it is winged, so maybe that’s why it feels more sturdy?
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- To be honest, I am almost sure I am leaning towards Winstons beds - in terms of Customer Service, assistance, information, and explanation, I really cannot fault them; their customer care might be the best one I have ever received in my life (online). Their mattresses seem well constructed too, with good materials, but I would love to know if I really need to pair with their divan - what’s your thoughts on them? Oh, they also trade within the US as far as I know.
Lastly, as for the pillow, I am deciding on an adjustable one as you mentioned:
This is a really long message, and I know you’re all busy, but I would really appreciate if you could help me find my mattress as I really need one urgently
Thank you once again!