Help choosing mattress for heavy side sleepers

Hello,

I am seeking advice to help me through my decision fatigue. I have read the tutorial page several times, as well as countless threads and I’m having information overload.

I am deciding between the Avocado Green mattress (possibly with pillow top), the Nest Owl mattress, and the Berkley Ergonomics Independence Hybrid mattress. I chose these mattresses because they are available in Canada, and seem to be constructed with high quality, durable materials. I am leaning towards a hybrid mattress but open to other suggestions.

Due to our sizes we are probably going to wear out a mattress faster than the average couple. My husband is 6’3, 200 lbs - I am 5’7, 250 lbs. We are both side sleepers and have a king size bed. We like the feel of a medium-firm mattress (plush-ish but supportive without “sinking in”) but I have pain in my back, hips, and shoulders that need a lot of support. I also am a bit of a restless sleeper and switch positions a few times a night. I sometimes get hot at night and my husband is usually fine for temperature.

We are replacing a very old and sagging innerspring mattress. We tried the Casper Select Hybrid Memory Foam mattress which was a big mistake and almost as bad as our old mattress in terms of comfort. I had less pain sleeping on a cheap foam pad when camping! On the Casper we both felt completely unsupported and I had lots of pain after sleeping on it for about a month (we stuck it out for four months to be sure).

I would love some guidance on if I am on the right track, and help comparing the mattresses I’m thinking about, or suggestions of other mattresses that suit our needs. Thank you for providing this incredible resource!

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Hey there Sleepycanadian,

Welcome to the Mattress UnderGround from across the border, we are happy to have you and thanks for the inquiry.

You’ve got a few good mattress options, and each has its strengths. The Avocado Green Mattress is a solid choice with its organic latex, wool, and cotton materials, offering durability and good support. The optional pillow top adds extra cushioning, which could help with your back, hips, and shoulders. It’s also cooler than memory foam, which is great for your temperature needs. However, it might be pricier and the firmness level might not be perfect for everyone.

The Nest Owl Mattress features a hybrid design with foam and coils, providing a balance of comfort and support. It also offers customizable firmness, so you can choose a medium-firm feel that suits you. It has cooling features too, which could help with your temperature concerns. Keep in mind that foam layers might wear out over time, especially with heavier use. The Owl does offer a zippered comfort layer, so if it does wear down over time, it is easy to replace it, rather than replace the entire mattress.

The Berkley Ergonomics Independence Hybrid Mattress also focuses on support and pressure relief with its hybrid construction. It’s known for its ergonomic support, which is beneficial for side sleepers like you. It tends to manage heat well, which is another plus. However, availability and cost might be factors to consider.

Since you sometimes get hot at night, a mattress with good airflow or cooling features is crucial. The Avocado Green Mattress stands out for its natural cooling properties, but the other options have cooling technologies too. Ensure the mattress you choose has a good trial period and warranty, so you can be sure it meets your needs.

Some things to consider. Viscoelastic Memory foam like the one in the Casper, may not have been a suitable choice if you are considering needed a cooler sleep environment and sinking with support. Here is a quick comparison of the two types of foams.

Viscoelastic memory foam and latex foam each offer distinct characteristics that affect comfort and support. Viscoelastic memory foam is known for its deep contouring properties, meaning it conforms closely to your body’s shape, which can provide excellent pressure relief. However, this close contouring often results in a sensation of sinking into the mattress, and the foam can retain heat, making it feel warmer, especially for those who tend to get hot at night.

On the other hand, latex foam offers a different experience. It provides a slight sinking sensation but tends to be more buoyant and responsive, giving you a feeling of floating on top of the mattress rather than sinking deeply into it. Latex also naturally has better air circulation, which helps with temperature regulation, keeping you cooler compared to memory foam. Overall, while memory foam molds closely to your body and might retain heat, latex offers a more supportive and cooler sleep surface with less of that sinking feeling.

I have made the following statement for the 5 time today between conversations and advice proffered. Referring to the one quoted regarding collaborating and speaking with any company you plan to do business with. When you choose a company that has qualified experience mattress professionals, when available, you will tend to do much better than a random selection on your own, unless you have really done your homework. These folks when working with you personally, have a lot more vested in getting your choice right the first time.

The are many mattresses out there are check the boxes for the average sized, somewhat indifferent mattress shopper. Much like the average hotel mattress. Designed for the “mean” of the bell curve sleeper rather than those on the “tails” of the curve.

Given your profiles, aches and pains, need for support, I would place you on the tail of the curve, thus requiring more attention to hit all of your PPP’s (Personal Preferences, Posture and Alignment and Pressure Relief). A concept referred to in the TMU tutorials.

Since we have a Canadian Trusted Member Expert here at TMU, I would invite you to speak with @MFC. They could certainly guide you on the Canadian market and possibly make some appropriate suggestions.

The Berkley Ergonomics is a popular choice and made with quality materials and typically utilize the European flexible slat system. Here is a brief breakdown of flexible slats vs rigid non flexible slats.

Flexible Slats:

  • Pros:
    • Adaptability: Offers more flexibility and localized support, which can be beneficial for varying body shapes and sleeping positions.
    • Pressure Relief: Works well with latex mattresses, as both the slats and the mattress can adapt to body contours.
  • Cons:
    • Durability: May not be as durable under higher weights as rigid slats. Over time, flexible slats might sag or lose their supportive properties if not designed for heavier loads.

Solid, Rigid Slats:

  • Pros:
    • Consistent Support: Provides robust, uniform support that is typically more durable under heavier weights.
    • Longevity: Less prone to sagging and deformation, which makes them a good choice for long-term use with heavier individuals.
  • Cons:
    • Less Flexibility: Offers less adaptability to body contours, which might affect comfort compared to flexible slats.

European Flexible Slat Design:

  • Pros:
    • Customizable Support: Often includes features for adjusting the firmness or flexibility of the slats, which can enhance comfort for heavier individuals.
    • Pressure Relief: Can complement the elasticity of latex mattresses, potentially offering better pressure distribution.
  • Cons:
    • Check Weight Ratings: Ensure that the European flexible slats are designed to support higher weights. Some designs may not be suitable for individuals at the upper end of the weight range.

Recommendation:

  • For Individuals 200 lbs and Up: Solid, rigid slats are typically more reliable for consistent support and durability. However, if you prefer flexible slats, ensure they are specifically designed to handle heavier weights and offer the necessary support.

Both types of slats can work with latex mattresses, but solid slats are generally preferred for their durability and long-term support for heavier individuals.

Hopefully, this gives you some food for thought.

All the best on your choice and remember to consult with @MFC or someone local to your area.

Maverick